Is there such a thing as being too tight?
Posted Sat Apr 09, 2011 10:18 PM
Before I joined SF the only vagina I had seen was, well, mine! But now that I've been browsing through countless pics in the gallery sections, I find that most of them seem to be a little more lose. I want to enjoy sex the same once I find the right person, and I'm hoping that this would not get in the way of me having a great time... Any input/suggestion/opinion is greatly appreciated
Posted Sat Apr 09, 2011 10:40 PM
Posted Sat Apr 09, 2011 10:42 PM
I have a new toy that I find big, even when I am relaxed, so I have resigned to the fact that it is simply not for me (it is a flesh like vibe that I have been dying to try for ever to my disappointment).
With partners, I think this should not be too much of a problem, unless they are massive.My husband is rather average in size and I am quite tight for him to fit into. Recently I slept with my ex who is a little more on the bigger size but we had alot of foreplay to ease into sex and it was amazing, still tight but managable and enjoyable.
I guess what I am saying is that sometimes it is all in the mind so relax and have a fun time with your (future) partner.
And it may help to watch a little soft porn to see just what the vagina can do with bigger cocks/objects, it just manages.
(Btw, your pussy is fantastic).
Posted Sat Apr 09, 2011 11:34 PM
Posted Sat Apr 09, 2011 11:48 PM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 02:15 AM
BTW, how can you tell how tight or loose someone's pussy is just by looking? I'd like to be able to do that...maybe you could teach me how.
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 05:17 AM
I think the really big difference between using a toy and actually being with someone would be the presence of foreplay to help you relax and help you get aroused enough to accept penetration.
I honestly don't think you'll really have trouble once you find a partner if they are willing to be gentle and work you up before the actual act.
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 05:29 AM
Now, to your question. The answer is yes, there can be such a thing as too tight, and it's called vaginismus. This is actually something that you would experience every time you insert something in the vagina. However, if you had sex with your husband, whom you say was a regular size, and did not experience pain or disconfort, you, you should be okay with bigger objects. Like everything, practice, practice and practice... Your vagina should be able to take quite a bit if you consider that children go through it when they're born.
Posted Mon Apr 11, 2011 05:46 AM