Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 02:06 PM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 02:10 PM
Second, don't go after it... Major, major mistake if you do. Keep things in your mind, and your mind alone as a fantasy... If it helps at all, fuck your girl thinking about the milf but nothing else, and don't ever ever mention it to her.
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 02:44 PM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 02:47 PM
This post has been edited by tenyn: Sun Apr 10, 2011 02:47 PM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 03:33 PM
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 05:01 PM
As the old saying goes, look but don't touch. Most couples in a relationship will admire the view but won't go there since love prevails. It's not a strange or weird thing to have happen, but it is something better kept to yourself.
Posted Sun Apr 10, 2011 05:57 PM
It's a matter of fantasy vs. reality. You may fantasize about her, but you said you already know not to go for her, and I think that's the right frame of mind. Fantasy is one thing, and nobody can see inside your head. I have fantasies that I'll never share with Mr._C. - either because they're about other men or because I don't think he'll be interested. But that's different from reality and acting on the fantasy about her.
You seem to have a good relationship with your girl, and you say you have great sex, so it seems like you are happy. I'd advise you to keep your fantasies to yourself and enjoy them, and I'm sure you'll be fine.