Ghastly Nightmare *shudders*
Posted Wed Apr 27, 2011 11:33 AM
I had an absolutely dreadful nightmare about a girl I really like (I've been trying to date her for about 6 months, but she has some inner demons to work out first) giving a blowjob to another friend and then bragging about planning on having sex with him.
I feel absolutely terrible about this and don't know what to do. This isn't her normal behaviour but on the flipside, who knows how she'll act around her other friend. I've never seen her and her other friend together.
What do I do about this? Do I confront her about it about my worry or just leave it alone, because I feel as if I leave it alone that i'll tear me up slowly.
Posted Wed Apr 27, 2011 11:43 AM
In that case, I'd agree completely with your subconscious...
Posted Wed Apr 27, 2011 12:34 PM
Posted Wed Apr 27, 2011 12:58 PM
Sorry that that is the harsh reality but i would hate to watch you blow your chances of ever being with her by appearing to be a stalker.
I think you may want to evaluate your feelings for her because it appears that it is becoming almost an obsession, and thats not okay. You may want to back off while she figures things out and invest your emotions into something else.
I wish you the best, good luck!
Posted Wed Apr 27, 2011 02:31 PM
That's just crazy talk sir.
Posted Wed Apr 27, 2011 02:36 PM
Again, need to emphasize... if you tell her that dream... she's going to be creeped out, and you're going to lose her anyway. So I would skirt around that issue... You gotta put yourself in her shoes on that one... what would you do if someone walked up to you and said "Hey, I dreamed about you giving your friend a blowjob last night. Wanna go out with me?". I dunno about you, but I'd break that person's nose... or possibly go out with them depending on what they looked like...
If they look like that, they're getting shot...
This post has been edited by Parannoyed: Wed Apr 27, 2011 02:41 PM
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Posted Fri Apr 29, 2011 03:35 PM
I really hope if you do talk to this girl that you leave your dream out of the conversation. If it comes up that you had a dream about her, I wouldn't go into much detail. Otherwise you'll come off as creepy, especially if you don't really know her that well.