Do you discuss you sex life with others
Posted Wed May 04, 2011 11:17 PM
Did you tell anyone after the first time doing oral?
Did you talk about your sexual experiences with anyone?
Do girls talk about sucking dick, swallowing, anal, dp with any of their friends, sisters etc?
I was at a funeral and we were sitting in the lounge. A uncle asked his young niece that was around 20 about her boyfriend. She said that she broke up with him because she like to suck cock and swallow and he didn't like her doing that. The rest of us just looked around, shook our heads and laughed in disbelief.
When in our late teens, legal age, we (males) never discussed anything about what we did with our girl friends. Just wondering if younger people do now or even as you get older?
Most of the people that I know don't other than the single guys that will talk about some girl they may have got lucky with.
Posted Wed May 04, 2011 11:51 PM
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 01:50 AM
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 08:08 AM
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 10:17 AM
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 03:00 PM
Exactly this, I don't generally just mention personal things like that with just anyone, but if you ask I am willing to go into whatever detail your comfortable hearing about.
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 04:46 PM
I do have to be careful around other people as I've had a few of those "did I say that out loud" moments.
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 10:06 PM
It's healthy to talk about....... can be humorous..... even entertaining all at the same time!!
MOST of the groups I hang out in though I don't really ever say anything. if they knew I was on this site I would probably never hear the end of it!
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 10:36 PM
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 11:05 PM
same. my friends would not be shocked im sexual, im very friendly/flirty but def would be surprised on the kinky side...which im discoverin myself. i only have bros, im sure with a sis i would talk more, like i do with my BFF. i discuss sex to a degree, and try to gage how comfy my chat partner is.
some fun convos ive had, more open ones happen at sex toy parties. would be cool to just share some laughs with ya friends like ya do here and say, yup..i imagine bein tied to the bed and have rasps eaten off me, and then ya friends say what a coincidence...me too.
i wont hold my breath. lol.
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 11:12 PM
If people knew about the intensely erotic side of me it would freak them out.
This post has been edited by tenyn: Thu May 05, 2011 11:12 PM
Posted Thu May 05, 2011 11:23 PM
Posted Fri May 06, 2011 07:57 AM
Posted Fri May 06, 2011 05:40 PM
I never tell my friends personal details about my partners... that's their business, and not mine to tell others.
Posted Sat May 07, 2011 09:33 AM
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 03:12 AM
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 04:38 AM
I don't blab about our sex life except on SF and others. I love sharing details of our kinky sex life. PM me if you would like to hear some details.
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 08:51 PM
personally, i love discussing sex and masturbation a lot. big fan of both! but when it comes to having an actual conversation about it and details and what not, i've always been more comfortable having these talks with a close friend who's a girl. It may be because it's arousing for us both as we enjoy the activities/topics and/or the friendship we have but i can assure you all guys should because it gives you a complete opposite view of what's going on and it's made me a better lover and more confident when needing to talk about it with a girl who i may be dating or something.
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 09:32 PM
This post has been edited by Jenypher: Sun May 08, 2011 09:34 PM