My new girlfriend doesn't want to let me orgasm. What do I do?
Posted Sat May 07, 2011 02:53 PM
Well the whole thing totally turns me on, but at the same time it was a really difficult and stressful experience. That night I could barely sleep, and the next day I could barely get any work done because I was so horny (not to mention an uncomfortable hard on and blue balls all day long). She ended up finishing me off that night, thank god, although I think she regretted it. She wants to try it again, and I really would like to make it work, so I'm wondering if anyone that has any experience with this and can give advice on how to get through the day without crawling up the walls? I mean if one day was that difficult, I can't imagine if she ever makes me wait longer. Also, does it get easier with practice?
Posted Sat May 07, 2011 04:50 PM
Posted Sat May 07, 2011 05:11 PM
To be honest it sounds to me like she thinks of it as a bit of a game......only she can make you cum and only when she wants you too. I reckon it's probably a turn on for some. Have a chat and see what she thinks about it.
Failing that, whack out a quick one when she aint about!
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 12:19 PM
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 12:25 PM
This, exactly this.
A game is fun if you know your entering into a game with set rules and stuff. Sounds to me she just wants control (unless my reading retention needs help).
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 02:36 PM
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 03:17 PM
And she's a control freak.
I'd cum next time then dump her. Tell her it happens when hand and blow jobs happen.
I would have split after 1/2 an hour. My rule: if you touch it, it cums.
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 10:12 PM
Yes, she said she wants me to always be horny for her. No she didn't cum that night because she was on her period, but we have both made each other cum other times.
Posted Sun May 08, 2011 10:17 PM
I think like Iceman said, its a game to her. She gets off on being the only one that controls when I'm allowed to cum. And she's always been willing to do whatever type of sexual activity I want, so I want to do the same for her. Plus I think its kind of a turn on if I could get over the difficulty of it.
Posted Mon May 09, 2011 05:20 AM
Games are ok...those types of sex games are not. I'm going to explain... so pay attention.
It reminds me of girls that do everything to turn on a guy and leave him totally frustrated. We called them cock teasers, but it isn't even funny. These types of girls do not understand how much pressure, pain and suffering a guy can have or simply don't care or it is part of some sinister cult that hates guys. It may be she is practicing up for a sex less marriage. A woman can do this little game for months on end and not suffer the horrible biological pressure a guy does. Excited male glands are meant to be emptied. You cannot compress a liquid so your prostate, seminal vesicles and testicles will back up and begin to sludge up.
(you know those little gelatinous chunks that come out sometimes) The nervous pressure you feel may help you to grow a stomach ulcer or a PERMANENT nervous condition and begin to compromise daily activity,job performance and EVERYTHING you try to do. It is even possible that ultimately when you do try to cum, you can't because of cum so thick you can't ejaculate or can't ejaculate completely. Panic time. Called totally miserable because all the glands are in full purge and you are not purging. You may think you are dying. Then you are in huge trouble and feeling horrible. Chances are she won't even understand whats going on. Then it's Doctor time for prostate massage, several $$$ trips, finally relief and she probably still won't ever get it. If she is dominant now...hang on...put on some shackles and a leash. My first post stands...run! Run as fast as you can. Don't keep playing this foolish control freak game. EDOPHOLETEUS
This post has been edited by edopholeteuspedrini: Mon May 09, 2011 05:25 AM