Posted Sat May 28, 2011 08:33 AM
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 08:41 AM
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 08:48 AM
Your right it's not worth just going out to get it n ruining things.... i will just hang on in there ...as for the mastubating thing thats not a problem i just prefer the real deal.
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 04:40 PM
This post has been edited by KellsMor: Sat May 28, 2011 04:41 PM
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 04:57 PM
Give her time hopefully her emotions will balance out and she will be more open to sex or her sex drive will skyrocket. Just be understanding that pregnancy is exhausting. Let her know you are there to help and want to have intimate time together. Don't let her know you are frustrated about it, that only makes a prego lady feel worse. Or thats how it happened with me, he was frustrated and steaming about our lack of sex and i went off thinking i wasn't sexy enough anymore and i felt like a beached whale and I was carrying around an extra 20 pounds and i was sick off and on and I was hot all the time, just all those fun litle things about pregnancy and eventually i just told him quite forcefully it was his f-ing fault he wasn't getting laid. It was just more stress than i had the energy to deal with. Get her a massage maybe or just help her relax, and feel good about herself, maybe she may open up to the idea again.
I agree to talk to her and educate yourself on sex while pregnant, vaginal sex is not dangerous and it is encouraged (just watch out when doing it in the later months before bedtime.)
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 05:04 PM
so we had a good time... BUT i also know that my brother inlaw hardly had any sex with his wife during pregnacy.. partially because of her having vomittings and because she was afraid it would hurt the kid(s) ..
also, if your wife is extremly tired, try suggesting vitamin supplementes.. pregancy is something that really takes its toll on the body, so if she's low on something.. excessive sleeping is gonna pop up
good luck.. hope she rediscovers sex..
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 05:06 PM
scary.. but not uncommon...
Posted Sat May 28, 2011 08:47 PM
Posted Fri Jun 03, 2011 09:36 AM
Posted Fri Jun 03, 2011 09:45 AM
You should be here asking us what you can do for her, how you can ease the stresses of pregnancy, how you can assure she is okay (because, 4 months without sex leads me to believe something is going on out of the ordinary). Not looking for assurance that YOU'RE okay if you want to go get laid.
Posted Fri Jun 03, 2011 09:56 AM
If I were your partner, I'd leave you before the baby's born... Why don't you discuss with her if you can get it elsewhere. I think it'd be the best since at least she'll know what she can expect from you.
And so that you know, the odds are that it's not going to get any better after the baby's born. So, act now and avoid the guilt of leaving a child.
Geezus, why is that some men act like if they were sperm donors?