Posted Fri Feb 02, 2007 11:38 PM
I'm not a judgemental person like allot of people but I'm trying to understand something. She says that some T-girls choose to be that way but she was born this way. She said her breasts are natural and she is not taking shots. She says she was born a women with a penis. Well not in those exact words.
In other words she is somewhere in middle.
She says she is into straight guys and likes sex but doesn't specify what kind of sex. Are there allot of otherwise straight guys out there who would have sex with a T-girl?
I'm a straight acting, straight talking guy. I'm not attracted to men but I am some transexuals. The penis thing doesn't turn me off. Wouldn't even mind be on the receiving end if you know what I mean. I just prefer the way women are shaped.
So does that make me bi-curious? What would I be labled as?
I don't know if I could have a real boy/girl relationship for the simple fact there is so much prejudice out there people would make my life a living hell if they found out I was doing and getting done by a T-girl. My parents would disown me, and I'd never hear the end of it at work.
I know it sounds like I want a fuck buddy but I wouldn't mind having a friendship but not a real relationship. You know, go out to eat, rent movies, etc.
I was wondering if any of you guys have ever had a relationship with a T-girl. How did you go about it?
Posted Sat Feb 03, 2007 01:22 AM
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Posted Sun Feb 04, 2007 02:09 PM
I think it's time we got rid of these labels, these little confining boxes we place everyone in. There aren't just two sexes. There aren't just two sexualities.
Posted Sun Feb 04, 2007 02:58 PM
I'm not sure if this girl is a hermaphrodite or was just born a women with a penis.
But not a vagina. Is that possible?
I was watching a story about this on the news a few years ago. They say it's quite common for someone to be born with two sex organs. I can't quote real numbers but it's right up there with just about anything else. Like people born with three kidneys.
Years ago, since most parents are shocked, the doctor always insists on surgery and to just raise the kid as a female. But most cases "unusual" habits develope at an early age. Like the "girl" cries when put in dresses. Or she prefers to play with boys and toy trucks in sandboxes instead of dolls. And has no interest in girl stuff. Then the parents get really upset. Later in life some become lesbians.
That's why I have problems with people who say homosexuality is a learned behavior. If you are truelly attarcted to one sex over another I just don't see how you could choose to be an outcast. Some people may choose to be outcasts. Like Gothes and wannabe vampires.
I think to myself, that would be really awful to be born that way. Because of all the prejudice in this world.
Being a Christian, I still have conflictions about these sort of things. One guy at work said he didn't believe in homosexuality because God didn't make mistakes. Well if he didn't then why would he/she create someone with two sex organs? Is that a mistake or intentional? How should this person cope with this?
I think doctors now are reconsidering the penis removal for hermaphrodites because there is enough data on it by now. Instead suggesting to leave them alone and see what sort of habits the develope later in life and what sexual preferences they exhibit. Then let the person choose when they become a teenager if they want their penis removed or not.
Posted Sun Feb 04, 2007 05:56 PM
Sadly, if a male infant is born and his penis isn't so many centimeteres, they snip is off and make him into a female because it's thought he won't function with a small penis. =( There are all sorts of problems with this. And it's much easier to make a boy into a girl than vice versa.
those are hermaphrodites, firehawk. They have both genitalia. The more PC word is intersexed.
Posted Sun Feb 04, 2007 09:47 PM
Laurel Q said:
Sadly, if a male infant is born and his penis isn't so many centimeteres, they snip is off and make him into a female because it's thought he won't function with a small penis.
My X G/F' son was like this. She said he inherited the trait from his father. She said his father's was like 2" long. I thought she was joking but she swore it was true.
I don't know what was said when her son was born but she never had it "converted" and everytime she took him to the doctor the doctor would have this sad look on his face.
Maybe she was thinking it would grow as he got older but so far he is almost 13 and it hasn't grown much. I felt sorry for the kid because he had to sit down to use the bathroom.
She's worried he is not going to be able to have a relationship later in life.