virgin M looking for F
Posted Tue May 31, 2011 11:50 PM
Posted Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:45 AM
I'm not saying there's anything wrong with that. I was a virgin until I was 23, and there are plenty of people who hold out for the right person and don't lose their virginity until later.
This post has been edited by Miss_C.: Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:18 PM
Posted Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:04 PM
Posted Wed Jun 01, 2011 10:14 PM
I can understand that, meistro. Thanks for contributing.
Posted Thu Jun 02, 2011 05:03 AM
Posted Fri Jun 03, 2011 08:54 PM
I don't think it's anything to be ashamed of. Like I said, I was 23 before I lost my virginity. I think there's a lot more pressure on guys to lose it and have more sexual experience so that they can be seen as a "stud" while it's the opposite for girls. Girls are seemingly encouraged to wait to have sex and are supposed to be more "virginal" - much of the time, women who have more sexual experience are looked down on or called names because they have had more partners when society expects women to be "clean" and "pure." For men, there's not that social stigma associated with having many sexual partners. For guys, society stresses "conquest" and "scoring." So when you're less experienced or haven't "scored," then you start to feel weird about it.
This post has been edited by Miss_C.: Fri Jun 03, 2011 08:58 PM
Posted Fri Jun 10, 2011 10:16 PM
True, but that doesn't mean that guys can't be virgins.
And just because a girl's hymen is broken doesn't mean she has had sex. The hymen can be broken by using tampons or penetration with a vibrator or dildo during masturbation or by something as simple as riding a bicycle. The hymen is not always very strong.