Yes, another "cheating' thread
Posted Thu Jun 02, 2011 08:25 PM
Is it the suspicion that causes the cheating or is the intuition just a good indicator?
I would really love to hear of real life stories on the topic, as well as opinions...
Posted Thu Jun 02, 2011 08:35 PM
Posted Thu Jun 02, 2011 08:37 PM
Posted Thu Jun 02, 2011 09:56 PM
For the former, there needs to be some basis for the person's "intuition" so we can assume cheating would come first. And if it's the latter? I suppose someone might feel a desire to act out on what they are constantly being accused of, but it's also more likely to be a flimsy excuse to do that kind of behavior, only now with a way of justifying it. The notion of cheating just because someone thinks you are is kinda silly to me, but people do far weirder things.
Posted Fri Jun 03, 2011 10:28 AM
Posted Fri Jun 03, 2011 05:15 PM
In the case of cheating though, I would say that something would trigger your gut instinct to kick in and convince you something was up. Generally it is the minority that think something is amiss.....and then find the evidence to back it up.
To add though I think that once the evidence is apparent, it is your gut instinct that give the convictions in your mind as to whether its something serious or just a misunderstanding.
Posted Sat Jun 04, 2011 06:17 PM
I have never actually cheated on anyone but I am constantly treated like I do it all the time.
I am flirty by nature but so is she so I don't get it, the thought has crossed my mind that if I am accused of it and thought of this way no matter what I do , what difference would it make if I was to have an affair?
I haven't acted on the thoughts but they do creep in now and then.
So maybe some people do act differently when the opportunity presents itself.