have i been just unlucky???
Posted Sun Jun 05, 2011 01:34 AM
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Posted Sun Jun 05, 2011 01:49 AM
i am a toy user, but i dont find the idea of a huge toy to be much fun, plus im alway a bit paranoid about becoming "losse" even though i know its just a wise tail sum how its been planted in my head, where if it was with a guy it wud b ok if that makes any sense
Posted Sun Jun 05, 2011 03:46 AM
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Posted Sun Jun 05, 2011 11:23 PM
Still, I've been with women who have been so uncomfortable I had to stop, pull out, and attend to her manually and/or orally. Here in Asia, some women just look at me and say no. I'm usually able to convince them that I will be gentle, and everything goes well, as long as I maintain control at all times.
As for using toys, it's how you use them that matters. When using a large toy to get used to size, the best way (I'm told) is to use some lubrication, and slide it in until it starts to feel a bit tight. At that point, just leave it in without moving, allowing your body to adjust to it, for three minutes or so. Then, slide it out almost all the way, then slide back in, trying to take it a little further than last time. again, when tightness or discomfort happens, just be still and let the vagina open itself. And, of course, learning to do Kegel exercises will improve your flexibility, so 'looseness' will not be a problem.
As Jade has stated, size is neither good or bad for the woman; having a sensitive lover is much more important...
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2011 02:03 PM
I wouldn't consider it unlucky, it's just the way it is. Most guys are average (4-7" seems like the range), then there are few who have a really small or really big one. I happen to be blessed/cursed (which ever way you want to look at it) with the size that I have, but it doesn't always help out. Just saying.
Posted Tue Jun 07, 2011 06:58 AM
Posted Tue Jun 07, 2011 03:54 PM
Damn, that sounds really rough. That guy is definately an asshole.
Not all of us bigger guys are like that. I always make sure to be gentle until the girl is broken in. Then, the real fun begins.