looking for advice about wife's sex drive would like your advice about this issue
Posted Sun Jun 05, 2011 08:49 PM
Posted Mon Jun 06, 2011 11:24 AM
be having and she got put on hormone replacement to help balance her out and it's worked for her..may be worth her going to see a doctor and asking about it.
Posted Wed Jun 08, 2011 05:31 AM
Posted Thu Jun 09, 2011 12:50 PM
Posted Thu Jun 16, 2011 05:50 PM
My thought is for you to think about exactly what you are looking for. Do you want / need sex every day or do you just want more intensity and passion in sex? A need to have different partners? How about a desire to try new positions or "kinks"? If you can define what will make you satisfied, it will be easier to develop a plan to go after it. If you are not too far off from where your wife's current interests are, you may be able to work on a compromise. For example, if you would like to have sex about 5 times a week and she only wants to do it once, then discuss with her options to set aside some additional time for more excitement. Maybe not every week, but enough to generate extra passion to keep the relationship going.
If you are way apart on your desires, it's a problem. That's the situation I'm in. You may want to take your wife up on her offer to go outside of your relationship for satisfaction. That may not be your preference, but if she is OK with it, and you have opportunities, I wouldn't pass them up. I hope things work out. I know this is not a great situation.
Posted Thu Jun 16, 2011 06:07 PM
However, in this day and age it could very well be stress induced as well. How much down time does she get? Is she constantly busy, working and taking care of other things. If she doesnt have much, its gonna be tough trying to switch gears, so try making her life a lil easier, do some of her chores or whatever to help her relax, dont expect immediate changes tho, sounds like this developed slowly and its gonna take time to undevelope.