Bad sex? Have you ever had someone who was just completely bad at it?
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 05:27 AM
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Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 07:20 AM
But to answer the original question - I'm no Casanova, so any sex is good sex! And to be fair, s/he ain't gonna get better if you don't encourage/complain/suggest.
The girl I lost my virginity to was also a virgin, it wasn't great the first time, but it sure improved with practice!
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 09:22 AM
The number of men who don't really know what they're doing is absolutely staggering... Some try to mimic what they see in porn to the point that they forget that they have a woman in the flesh right in front of them. Some others, are so into their own pleasure that they forget that I'm even present. Back when I was younger, it was common that the guys would put out a show for me... Nowadays, it's the total opposite, men expect me to give them the porn star treatment. You see, I'm a single mother and I won't spend on lingerie or special items to spend a couple of hours with someone displaying that attitude. No, I turn down a lot of sex for those reasons. My record with the pretty boys is dismaying really... But then, there's the odd super handsome guy who plays every single spot on my body. All in all, I prefer the nice and relatively shy guys over the alphas... They listen to me, they pay attention to what I say and they do what I like.
Yep, the girls that don't know any better can have the bad boys... I don't need them.
This post has been edited by Olive: Wed Jun 15, 2011 09:27 AM
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Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 04:21 PM
The least inspired partner I ever had was one of two Bi guys I had a threesome with. I guess he was more into guys than girls and was only in it to be naughty with his friend. He seemed to like the oral I gave him, but I could tell he wasn't really into the vaginal sex too much. I've never had a partner be so distant and mechanical. The other guy was telling him to finish with me, so he did - in a strangely spectacular Peter North style, but I could tell he wasn't feeling it at all, otherwise. Later I found out I was the second girl he'd ever had sex with, as he had only really been with guys!
This post has been edited by Jenypher: Wed Jun 15, 2011 04:22 PM
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 04:28 PM
I have had others that were not worth returning to, but I don't know that I would go so far as to call them bad. Just not particularly worth the effort, given that any other option might possibly be available.
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 04:37 PM
My girlfriend hates my self deprecating humour - but the above it the reason why it started. I don't get guys (or girls) who talk a bigger game than they can deliver. I haven't had any complaints (well, not to my face ) but it'd be stupid to claim to be a sexual god. Especially when I was young.
Anyway... to answer the question - I sadly have.
A long time ago there was a girl who talked a big game - she talked about sexual fantasies, experiences, ex's, guys that couldn't get enough of her in the past... and it just wasn't happening.
It was awkward, uncomfortable, unsensual and when it came to oral... physically painful
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 04:56 PM
Yeah, I always love to hear the guys who brag about the one night stands. Hit it and quit it, they say. But if your store ain't getting repeat customers, it kind of tells you a bit about the quality of the merchandise.
Posted Wed Jun 15, 2011 06:37 PM
I have to say though I don't feel like you can always write someone off right away if the sex isn't spectacular the first time. Maybe they were nervous or just were used to a different rhythm. Sometimes people just need a little time to get adjusted to each others bodies/tastes/etc. You know sometimes projects can be fun!
This post has been edited by phenemol: Wed Jun 15, 2011 06:38 PM
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 11:09 PM
Omg that's horrible. Haha
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 11:18 PM
Posted Sun Jun 26, 2011 11:42 PM
Another time, I think I made the guy feel awkward... He assured me he was a total stud, and when it came down to it, he asked me for oral, I gave him some, then he pulled out and started masturbating on cummed on my belly. I looked at him and asked him about me; he said he was sorry, but that was all he'd got. I was a bit pissed; I mean, he had paid for a hotel room, which aren't cheap in the city, and I told him that if all he wanted a blowjob, he didn't have to spend so much money, he could've just gone out on a ride in the car. Never heard back from him after that.
Really, I don't think I'm that bad of a lay, but for crissake, I need something to work with...
Posted Mon Jun 27, 2011 12:10 AM
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This post has been edited by GalwayR: Mon Jun 27, 2011 01:39 PM
Posted Mon Jun 27, 2011 02:32 PM
That's the only shit sex i've had, however alot of guys rele don't understand how to please a woman by nipple play. i don't want 2 feel like i'm feeding my child i want to be teased slowly and gently, it just makes me cringe and i really don't enjoy myself.