Relationship advice needed ASAP!
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 03:39 PM
anyways there have been days where i have waited outside our room waiting for her to finish up with a man and then i jump in to get some pleasure of my own...
as long as we are both satisfied i guess right..and emotionally i think we are both satisfied too...im not sure if im satisfied sexually though
anyways let me know what your thoughts are on our relationship and if any suggestions can be given to make things betterby the way my hard on when measured is about 2 inches...actually thats me rounding up alot...its 1.1 inches
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 03:46 PM
Are you paying all her bills too?
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 05:22 PM
Posted Fri Jun 17, 2011 05:48 PM
a) Sit down and explain how you feel about the whole situation and see if she would want to explore some different sexual options
If you are unhappy with the terms the two of you have now and she isn't willing to change then leave her.
I hope you figure something out but like I said this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship. Good luck!
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 04:26 PM
Also, check out the net for umm... your ego. From what I understand there are procedures that can be performed to extend your penis. Maybe cost would be a factor there, but at any rate, find someone who loves you and will respect you no matter what your size.... hope this helps. Best of luck to you. Keep us informed of your situation?
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 11:45 PM
Posted Sat Jun 18, 2011 11:50 PM
Take some time for personal reflection and figure out what you want, or if you want anything to change.
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2011 05:17 AM
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2011 06:21 AM
Posted Sun Jun 19, 2011 06:41 AM
Learn to turn on your partners mind and their body will follow. As others have said, fingers, lips, tongue, toys, etc can all be used to make up for your shortcomings in other areas, learn to use them well.
I am NOT saying an open relationship can't work, but your sounds pretty messed up. It seems to me that that its real difficult to meet someone who is good for you if you are in a relationship with someone else.
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 04:02 AM
the thing with using tongue and fingers is that she has never been a fan of foreplay...even before when we actually had sex she never was comfortable with having my tongue or fingers in and around her vagina...she wont let other guys do that to her either so foreplay is pretty much out of the question...
and being a college student i got the worst health insurance possible....it hardly covers anything and obviously im short on cash so nothing can be done to increase my size....
Me and my girlfriend have a very strong emotional bond...she is caring and nice in every other aspect....should sex really break us apart?
i know humping her on top of her jeans does not sound like sex...but to me its i guess just as good as i will never be able to experience real penetration with my 1 incher....
anyways if there are any more suggestions im open to it...
and once again...thanks to everyone who wrote on this thread
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:41 AM
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 12:11 PM
But there seems to be a number of folks out there who love to ask about self-imaciating scenarios where their GF just absolutely rejects them for their small penis and openly has sex with other guys. The really telling part for me is when zetsky stated that he waits outside the bedroom door for her to finish with the stud so he can come in and hump her while she watches TV....seems like some of these cries for help have a real masochist/submissive/like-to-be-abused strain to them.
ok, I'll bite.
First, if what you're saying is true, you have micropenis. It is a legitimate condition that most insurance companies recognize and will cover the cost of penis enlargement surgery. You wont come out of the surgery room with donkey dick, but you'll have more girth and a couple more inches so you CAN penetrate.
Second, there is more than one way to penetrate or satisfy a woman. There are lots of girls out there that love some good oral. If you don't know how to make a girl climax with your tongue, then learn. It's a great feeling when her muscles contract and she's involuntarily squeezing your head with the insides of her thighs. Donkey dick not required.
Third, people are telling you to sit her down and have a real talk with her....and I think that's predicated on what you're saying being true, and something close to the entire truth. I tell you that if what you're saying is true (I'm doubting in, but there's all kinds of weird things I thought werent true that are), then you do NOT need to have any conversation of any kind. Your fear of this girl being the only or last option for you is a piss poor motive to stay...because she's not yours, bro. Other guys are having her, not you. If any person has the audacity to do and say to you what she has said and done to you, they do NOT love you. Period. End of story. You need to be out. Tell her you're out, and leave her. You'll never be happy with a person that has the CAPABILITY of doing that to you. Bro, it's not like a man should have to sit his girl down and explain to her that what she's doing is hurtful and vicious with something like this. She knows, and is doing it anyway.
No serious talk with this girl. Just tell her to take a hike.......if this situation is real.
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 12:13 PM
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 01:13 PM
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 06:26 PM
What about using a strap on on her? Would she be into that?
This post has been edited by phenemol: Thu Jun 23, 2011 06:27 PM
Posted Thu Jun 23, 2011 11:31 PM
Posted Sat Jun 25, 2011 08:39 AM
There are lots of women out there that can't reach the big O through penetration anyway so why not break out your imagination. If she's not into that Idea then you have no relationship and your being used, I'm guessing to pay the bills and providing a roof over her head.
Just my opinion, take what you like and leave the rest.