Can't cum after first time Sex orgasm
Posted Mon Jun 27, 2011 06:17 PM
I wz recently with an indian girl and even with all d kamasutra techniques, i still went all night without releasing. She said it wz bad, n now i'm kinda feeling worried.
Is there something wrong?
Posted Mon Jun 27, 2011 07:30 PM
Posted Tue Jun 28, 2011 12:52 AM
I had the same mindset as you. Meaning that it was all about the girl's pleasure. In reality I had no idea how to provide pleasure to the girl. Kind of like fumbling for a light switch in the dark. It took repetition and communication before I was able to get some things figured out. Just because you have the will does not mean you have the way.
One of the things I noticed is that girls, like us, want to see their lover climax. Some of them kind of take it personal if you don't. So stop masturbating, open up a line of communication, and practice for both hers and yours sake.
Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 10:37 AM
Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 01:02 PM
My advice based on my own experience is as follows:
1. DON'T get into the mindset "to pleasure her"! I know, sounds counter-intuitive but: getting into such mindset will not let you have fun. You will look as though you were changing a tyre and not really having fun. And what would you think to yourself if you saw your lover not having fun while playing with you? You would feel offended. And this works both ways.
2. It has a lot to do with diet. Eat more pork or more tuna, especially in the evening the day before.
3. I noticed that biting a grain of black pepper actually makes the regeneration process faster and you will be able to come again sooner.
Posted Sun Jul 03, 2011 10:03 AM
I am misstaken from India, & don't get panicked coz u have already had an bad experience with a girl.
first of all u ask ur self what actually u want, the style & the mode particularly. when we r inexperienced
we cum automatically. But after successive affairs we achieve maturity & our mind is properly set for sex
affairs. We become adult.
Besides that if u have any other problem in any other areas of ur life, be honest to ur self & solve it, otherwise
it will tickle in ur mind & u will never be in a state to enjoy the sex.
Again u have to explore ur self about ur special choices. Bring them in while u r in bed and also carefully choose
your bed partner whether u want him or not. this is very vital
Naturally gals experience many times very secretly, u know, at the very thought of her likings or at the sight of her
dearest one or by memorizing the hot affair very first time like that, you r bound to come automatically.
its quite natural it will happen & u need not to be scared try to be in a jolly mood & the orgasms will take place
as per ur choice. You need it u will have it, its only in your hand dear.
I can share my experiences with you if u desires so,
love & be merry
Posted Sat Dec 17, 2011 04:37 PM
Posted Tue Dec 20, 2011 12:15 AM