With the risk of trying to second guess my wife, I will give a description of what I feel she thinks about talking about sex based on what she has said in the past or other forms of communication body language or action for example;
Sex is something that is spontaneous, it should not be planned. It should not be talked about at anytime that it cannot be performed.
I find all this difficult to say the least, but it is the only 'fault' I have with her, when I say fault I guess it is only a fault in my eyes, but never-less something I find a problem. I would love to be able to have a middle ground and be able to to talk in an open way, but every time I have tried, something else comes up or she changes the subject. Its not that she doesn't like sex, in the bedroom she is dynamite, but thats limited to the bedroom, I shouldn't complain and I am not, I am grateful she is in my life, but at what point do you turn and say I don't want to improve my life, my outlook is to live the best possible life you can! And I am sure that if she was to open up there must be things that she would like that I have not offered her, so its a win win situation.
Any thoughts, ideas or previous experiences on this will be gratefully received, I am willing to compromise, and if the situation stays the same as it is now I will die a happy man, but a happier man would be better.
Thanks in advance,
p.s. I am 32 and my beautiful wife is 36
This post has been edited by manfresh: Tue Jun 28, 2011 07:21 AM