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Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 12:40 AM
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Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 03:24 AM
You could want or do anything with a girl and as long as you only want to do it with a girl, nothing could be gay.
Actually, if you wanted to suck the strap on as well, that might be a bit gay.
There's a whole lot of people doing prostate massage these days as an orgasm enhancement for men, especially in tantra.
I personally am somewhat tantric, minus the oils, incense, and gnostic themed elements, but have never tried it. I'm not at all at ease with things in my anus, so I can't tell you anymore about it, sorry, but you can google or search here about prostate massage.
*disclaimer* Not that there's anything wrong with being gay or bi.
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 04:04 AM
As long as it is between a man and a woman there is nothing gay about being fucked with a strap on. Just as there is nothing gay about oral sex between a man and a woman. I am as straight as an arrow and DW fucks me with a strap on about once a week and I love it, but the last thing I want is a real dick in my ass. We have been doing this for many years.
She loves it as much as I do. We don't like doing it in the doggy position. Our favorite is missionary. I lay on my back with my legs drawn up. She gets between my legs and inserts the dildo in me. In this position she can easily reach my dick and she loves watching the dildo go in and out of me. There is a great series of videos on xnxx dot com called strap on master class. Just type strap on master class in the search field on the web site. You may want to watch it with your gal. PM me for details of our harness and our dildos as well as details of our strap on fucking.
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Also to wife loves to power and having the control. I have never or will never think I'm gay because I enjoy this. For anybody that has ever thought about this I highly recommend you give it a try.
Posted Wed Jun 29, 2011 07:00 PM
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Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 12:57 PM
As bert said, if you wanna try it go for it, don't worry about labels or what anyone else things. Besides, if you two do it who else will REALLY know? I'm pretty sure at the next holiday get together you won't blurt out "so, she fucked me up that ass and it felt really good, you outta try it dad!"
Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 03:41 PM
Let's break it down.
Weird? Depends on your definition of weird. The sensation might be "weird" if you've never done anal before (I'd suggest practicing with and getting used to other toys before using a strap-on, since you may not like the sensation, and you always want to start small and work your way up, every time). It's not weird for guys to think about this, nor would I describe it was weird for guys to do it. Unusual, I might say, but only in the strictest sense, as pegging (a guy being fucked with a strap-on by a woman) does not seem to be something most couples do, but I'm sure many of them have thought about it.
Gay? Well, look at your statement: "being fucked by your girlfriend." You also talk about "straight guys." Gay tends to refer to homosexual relationships, and since you're talking about heterosexual relations (just some physical role reversal), not at all. Curious, sure, but being interested in pegging, and just pegging, and no interest, sexual attraction, or even curiousity about sex (or any kind of sexual contact) with a man would take this out of the realm of bi-curious.
Now, as to your last part, have any straight guys tried this, the answer is yes. It's common enough to have its own nickname: "pegging," which specifically talks about a man being anally penetrated by a woman I'm sure some of them, and probably their girlfriends too, have replied here and can describe their experiences. I, personally, have not. I also might not necessarily describe myself as "straight" (I'm only interested in relationships with women, but I am rather curious about sexual contact with men, so I'd say bi-curious at most). However, I have played around with anal toys, and I've rather enjoyed that. And physically speaking, it's no surprise. Sure, the anus wasn't built with penetration in mind, but you can get around that by physically relaxing, using lots of lube, taking it slowly (and I mean seriously slowly: your first time being penetrated will probably take at least a minute to get "the head" in, if you want to avoid as much pain as possible), and starting with small things (fingers or small toys) and working your way up to something closer to the size of a penis. Once you get beyond that, there are several reasons this would be pleasurable. For example: your prostate is most easily accessible via your anus, and stimulating that is rather pleasurable. Another would be role reversal: being the submissive one for once, someone else having control, or just the change of pace. Another might be the "taboo" factor: you're doing something you aren't necessarily "supposed" to do.
I hope that answers your questions, but feel free to ask more or let me (or the rest of the community, however you want to handle it) know if you want details on any of the specifics.