This post has been edited by Musings: Thu Jun 30, 2011 11:17 AM
Advice for Sex Toys for Wife
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 11:17 AM
Posted Thu Jun 30, 2011 01:26 PM
For a first toy, you could go a couple of different ways, I think. You could either get her a toy to use by herself or get a toy that you can use together.
If you get her something to use alone, I'd recommend getting something that's not too large or intimidating. A 10" dildo is probably not the best first sex toy. Instead, I think a smaller vibrator - a bullet or egg vibrator - would be good. Something like that could be used on her clit or inside her. Something with multiple speeds and patterns of vibration would be nice, I think. A lot of women like the rabbit-style vibrators with the little "ears" that stimulate the clitoris. I don't personally own one of those, but I have heard good things about them. I'd say that they're popular.
You could also use the bullet as a couple during sex. I'm sure it would feel great for her to have the bullet inside her and turned on while you're having sex. You could also feel the vibrations on the tip of your penis when you entered her, which might feel nice for you, too.
Another good sex toy choice for a couple is a cock ring - especially if it vibrates. There are all kinds out there, and you can get ones with clit stimulating parts or anal stimulating parts, etc. It's something you both can enjoy, and cock rings usually are inexpensive. Just make sure you get the right size so that it's not too small (and hurts or feels uncomfortable) or too big (and slips off and doesn't work the way it's supposed to).
Posted Fri Jul 01, 2011 01:28 AM
Posted Sun Jul 03, 2011 10:30 PM
Being a sex toy expert as well as a marketing assistant for a sex toy store, your question always comes up.
My answer is always try to incorporate sex toys that both of you can use. For example, look at the We Vibe, it is a sex toy that will please both yourself and your wife.
Also take a look at some egg or bullet vibrators that feature a wireless (or wired) control, that you can control while your wife uses it - this adds a little fun!
If your wife is looking for a toy she can use alone, or that you can use on her try Liv by Lelo - a bit expensive, but it's a great toy!
Also this guide on my blog: TheSexToyStand Blog covers the basic material and features some toys that I'm sure your wife and yourself will love!
Posted Thu Jul 07, 2011 08:23 PM
Posted Fri Jul 08, 2011 01:28 PM