Posted Sat Jul 02, 2011 03:14 PM
How does it work and what goes on there apart from the obvious lol
Posted Wed Jul 06, 2011 08:44 AM
Posted Fri Jul 08, 2011 05:40 PM
I'm in Europe where there are lots of sex clubs.
You can play with toys like sex swings, gyno chairs, and fucking chairs.
Went there with an ex.
There were swinger rooms and couple rooms.
We never swung, but saw lots of others going at it and had sex in a room with about 15 couples.
I find exhibitionism a huge turn on and loved it.
It was really freeing to have sex with others watching.
Posted Fri Jul 15, 2011 12:00 PM
Posted Fri Jul 15, 2011 11:13 PM
This post has been edited by billnjoy: Fri Jul 15, 2011 11:23 PM
Posted Tue Jul 19, 2011 01:32 AM
Me and my gf always talk about going to the sex parties. The one you was talking about sounds very fun to join.. But the question is, How do you go to one? They dont just have ads for them in the paper. How do you find out about them to be able to go to them?
Posted Tue Jul 19, 2011 08:18 AM
You would typically join a lifestyle website and get information/invitations that way.
Posted Tue Jul 19, 2011 08:59 AM
Wouchgirl is right. Anything that has to do with getting together with swingers will get you invites.
The difficult thing for swingers is coming out to other people because there is still some stigma from people
who are not into it. Coming out to other swingers is the most direct way.
As for cosplay parties, you need to learn how to sew and make your own costumes. Wearing a particularly
risque costume at any kind of cosplay gatheringusually makes you much more approachable as far as
people who might be interested in having an adult cosplay party.
Our best experiences have been from ordinary couples that are not necessarily swingers. This involves
getting together with lots of different couples and floating the topic of sex and seeing where that goes.
You need to sometimes when it seems appropriate take a risk and let them know that you are open to swinging
and sometimes they are interested in trying it too.
More often they are just interested in hearing about your exploits. Sometimes word might get around
to other swinging couples, or they might know other swingers who you can play with.
When you've gotten enough couples interested, and you've dated them some, you can have your own party
This post has been edited by billnjoy: Tue Jul 19, 2011 09:02 AM
Posted Tue Jul 19, 2011 03:58 PM
Besides that, sometimes you'll see parties posted on craigslist. Not sure how those are though.
Posted Thu Jul 21, 2011 01:34 AM
Posted Mon Aug 01, 2011 06:02 PM