Posted Wed Feb 21, 2007 03:49 AM
I am having a major crisis. Something I actually feel embarrassed about.
I and my girlfriend have been dating for six months now. We started getting very physical after the second month and it was very new for both of us. We both were and I think still am virgins. Ok let me start
After the second month things were getting more and more intense and we did get to the point of having sex. But I just could not go all the way, she told me to stop, it was too painful. This has happened many times now where we attempted but she just could not handle the pain. And there was times where she went to the bathroom and told me that she bled excessively and it was not that time of the month for her. She even told me that she saw a piece of skin in the toilet. But still even after that many times she told me to stop and that it is too painful?
I am so confused and do not know what to do? Please help any advice. We both want to loose our virginity. What should I do? I feel so frustrated!!!!! I do not want to hurt her, what should I do??? Please give me advice!!!!!
Posted Wed Feb 21, 2007 03:56 AM
Posted Wed Feb 21, 2007 04:57 AM
Unless you have a monster cock then there no reason why you can get it in. Unless shes not wet, if she is try some Sort of lubricant. Astroglide is the best but I think KY smells a little better.
An inexperienced girl, can tell if you are anxious, by the way you breath move, act, your facial expressions....everything. It makes them feel rushed, and flustered.
They clam up. Literally... the pussy muscles tighten up, almost by themselves, sometimes they have no control over it. This makes it damn near impossible to penetrate her. You have to make a happy pussy. Happy girl happy pussy.
I also recommend if shes going to make a habit of cock teasing you like this...you bust at least two nutts before you even see her for the day. Just go to a porn site & rub a few out. So you can be more relaxed when your around her. Other wise that shyts gonna drive you crazy.
If she sees your frustrated shes going to get scared. Chics are like fuct up, in the head. So she'll be thinking she doesn't want to do it anymore, but if she doesnt you'll leave her or get mad at her, but if she does, it'll hurt her & she doesn't know what its gonna feel like, or what her or her body is going to be like afterwards... plus other shit. All this shit runs through her head at the same time. Its an experience thats unknown to her & even if she says she wants to do it, shes going to be somewhat apprehensive.
I would say the biggest thing you can do to help, is to take as much pressure off of her as possible. Talk first about some of the things that shes afraid of. Not while your in bed but maybe when you guys are are in a private relaxed non-sexual setting.
When you get down to it make her feel relaxed & even if you get anxious, like get up & go get water or something. Let her make the decision when to put it in, how fast & how much of it. That may work if she says she really wants to do it, and the only real problem is getting it in.
Like have her on top & let her hold your dick and play around her pussy hole with your dick head & let her move down on the shaft at her own pace. But don't push because if shes not ready then it'll get tense close up & you'll have to start all over again.
I wish I could tell you that it was easy but its frustrating as hell. Thats why I would never deal with another virgin in my life.
Now hears the kicker...Your gonna have to go through all this shyt all over again when you wanna start puttin it up her ass.. ..Dont even get me started on that one.
Posted Wed Feb 21, 2007 05:20 AM
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Posted Wed Feb 21, 2007 02:00 PM
LOL!!! That was priceless.