Anal Sex, where to start.
Posted Sat Jul 23, 2011 05:24 PM
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Posted Sat Jul 23, 2011 07:11 PM
Some good advice here already. I enjoy anal sex with my guy. I agree with what has been said already.
Use lube for sure - it's good to use more than you think you'll need at first to figure out how much is best for you and your girl. The anus does not self-lubricate the way the vagina does, so lube is essential.
Foreplay is very important with anal sex. As said above, use your fingers or a small toy (butt plug, anal beads, bullet vibrator) to allow her to adjust to the feeling of being stimulated anally. This will also prepare her to stretch around your cock when you enter her.
Go slowly. Even though I'm more experienced than you are with anal sex, I still need my guy to go slowly, or it can be painful sometimes. Always go slowly - not just the first few times.
Give her control. She's willing, and that's great. That's the first step. Let her control the speed and depth of penetration - this will also cut down on the pain she feels. She may not feel any pain at all if you allow her to take you in on her terms. I didn't feel any discomfort whatsoever the first time I had anal sex because we went veerrryyyy slloowwllyyy.
Let us know how it turns out!
(And I changed your gender for you. You were listed as female. )
Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 08:07 AM
Ive tried it with other girls but to no avail. Understandably, most just couldn't handle the pain despite the lube, prep and taking it slow. One was pretty determined and wanted to press on despite clearly hurting her so I stopped that one in it's tracks.
If I were to attempt it again id probably buy her one of those anal training kits with the assortment of different sized bum friendly toys to play with by herself and get accustomed to it in her own time.
Hopefully that way she's knows if she's both keen on the idea of anal sex and physically prepared to take it.
Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 08:26 AM
After a little bit of going at it with this she begs for me to put my dick in.
This post has been edited by Tmerc: Sun Jul 24, 2011 08:27 AM