GF doesn't like to give bj's =(
Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 10:55 AM
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Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:14 PM
That could be one reason why she doesn't commit to a blowjob for the whole duration.
Also, some girls are quite self conscious when they've got a guys dick in their mouth so perhaps when she's going down on you she feels a little exposed and in turn it might look like she's not enjoying it.
If she really disliked it that much then she wouldn't bother at all.
And then there's the issue that she might feel like she's being made to act subservient to you.
However this is all a matter of perspective: on one hand it could be the man who believes he's in the dominant role yet he's the one who's handing himself over to the woman to be played with and she is essentially the one who's empowered with the control over his orgasm.
It's a long shot, but you could try explaining this to her.
Really, for any progress you need to find out her reasoning why she dislikes it, but if it's a touchy subject for her and she's not willing to budge then just enjoy it for what it is.
Remember, there are girls out there who wouldn't even consider putting a penis in their mouth for one split second...
Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 12:37 PM
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Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 02:59 PM
Some women just don't like doing it, and there isn't really any convincing someone to enjoy something, either they enjoy it or they don't.
But try talking to her, ask her questions such as...
Do you feel that you are not good at giving them? Do you not like how it feels? Does it physically hurt you? Do you feel like a slut when giving a blowjob? Does it taste bad to you? get the specifics, it will help her answer be a little more clear as to why rather than her just saying she doesn't like to. It can also help come up with a solution to maybe help her open up to the idea.
If it is because of taste, take a shower before hand, and try some body chocolates or flavored lubricants or what have you.
If it is a because she feels like a slut, be respectful and understanding and reassure her that she is not in anyway that... or what not.
If it is because she thinks she is bad at it, if she is help her, coach her sorta, let her know what feels good, moan a little, or something.
If it is because it makes her face hurt, well i am not sure what to tell you.
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Posted Sun Jul 24, 2011 06:28 PM
flavored lube definitely makes it more enjoyable! i had (until i used it all) this strawberry flavored stuff that was really fun to play with. maybe it's something to consider
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Posted Mon Jul 25, 2011 01:12 PM
My guess is that the jaw excuse isn't the real reason.
That being said, if she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. You can't make her. But you can decide what is important to you. I, personally, would be more annoyed with the poor excuse and lack of effort to resolve a very basic problem or that the excuse is just hiding a truth (doesn't want to do it). Lack of orsl sex is less a problem than lack of honesty and initiative, in my opinion.