Zeitgeist Objective view of state of sexuality and culture
Posted Thu Aug 04, 2011 12:06 PM
Being objective here and wanted to get some feedback.
Sex talk on the forums tends to be almost exclusively about body parts and mechanics. Just the more physical aspects of sexuality.
There are or were, of course the more psychological, spiritual and erotic aspects of sex, but they seem not to be discussed much these days.
About 7-10 years ago, I was on a forum like this and the women tended to keep things from being all about the physical side, but it seems women now are all on board here with bodies and mechanics.
Before, it seemed men had to be more subtle and psychologically sexual to get attention, now its more "show me your tits." on both sides of the isle.
I find bodies and the physical fine, just thought it odd that there's a whole other side to sex that people don't seem to be interested in much these days.
I know porn and its massive internet availability play a role, but again, women usually balanced this out in the past by being more receptive to the more psychological aspects of sexuality, but I also see more and more women into porn these days.
What are your thoughts.
Posted Thu Aug 04, 2011 06:52 PM
Posted Thu Aug 04, 2011 09:53 PM
Posted Fri Aug 05, 2011 06:08 AM
Yikes, I was afraid of that.
Thats what I think too.
The big problem for me is that this element of life is what I find to be about 99.9% of what makes life something worth living.
Not sure what to do with myself now.
Posted Fri Aug 05, 2011 07:40 AM
This post has been edited by Olive: Fri Aug 05, 2011 07:45 AM
Posted Fri Aug 05, 2011 08:05 AM
Seduction, subtlely, teasing, sexual psychological tension and release, eroticism, allure.
Something more than sticking things in the right place and hitting the right spot.
Something more than body parts.
I'm not saying the later aren't important, but I do find them secondary for mind blowing sex.
Today they seem superfluous.