Black women for white men
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 04:55 PM
I had talked to a few of the girls, one was Polish, another British. Then an African girl came up to me and kissed me and I had my hand on her round buttocks. I talked with her for a while, continued to kiss then went to get a dance from her. I must say that I found it hot, hotter than I would with a white female. Don't get me wrong I love white females but I'd never had a black female ever kiss me before, and she was truly stunning with amazing curves and a big booty. I tend to like voluptuous women and black women tend to have that quality.
I would not mind now having sex with or dating a black female. I suppose it is just different from what I am used to, so that added to the hotness of it all.
Anyone had any experiences that fall into this category? (I want to keep the subject of this thread to black female/white male relations and not white female/black male relations or anything else).
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 05:29 PM
Latin American women can also be hot, although there are few of them in the UK despite me having had experiences with one, and I often think that Indian and Middle Eastern women look hot too but many of them are quite covered up...
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 07:43 PM
And regardless of how small a woman is you're not going to break her
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 07:46 PM
ok, thanks for clearing that up...We're glad you pointed out that it was your friends' idea and you were drunk. Good thing you told us all that. Otherwise we would've thought you had no game..
I had talked to a few of the girls, one was Polish, another British. Then an African girl came up to me ...I must say that I found it hot, hotter than I would with a white female. Don't get me wrong I love white females okay, so you like white chicks and black chicks....
In addition I have also been turned on by the thought of having sex with Asian (Far Eastern, e.g. Chinese, Thai, Filipino, etc) women. .....and you like asian chicks...
Latin American women can also be hot....and you like Latinas....
I often think that Indian and Middle Eastern women look hot too ....and you like Indian and Middle eastern babes.
So...what you're saying is.....you don't think Martian women are hot?
You have a condition that makes you turned on to all different kinds of chicks. It's called heterosexuality. There is no known cure, although it can be treated temporarily by getting in a string of relationships in which the girls cheat on you. Good luck man...good luck.
This post has been edited by ilyushin79: Mon Aug 08, 2011 07:49 PM
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 09:48 PM
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:36 PM
Sex is the key to evolution and the propogation of our species (human kind). Sex is unique in human kind in a few fundamental aspects. We choose mates not entirely based on genetics. However that is both true and false. While we may incorporate learned knowledge (and many other factors) into our decision making process, there is a strong instinctual lean towards propagation in meaningful ways(genetically speaking.) One of those ways is by finding mates based on strength. (The strong will survive. Our definition of strength is elusive and not always inherently the same though.) Another way is by finding mates that are similar to us if we have a firm belief that it is our traits that are fundamental to our survival. (A complimentary example may be for people that have experienced traumatic experiences and found innovative ways to survive that they then begin to subconsciously link to some of their own characteristics. Which isn't to say you won't be attracted to someone with similar characteristics unless this happens, only that it is an instance where it may happen.) Another way, and in particular, is the genetic need for diversity. This is usually stronger per se in individuals from smaller groups or less diverse gene pools. For instance, some areas are so compact that most people know everyone there and the gene pool, while diverse enough for survival, isn't as diverse as nature would prefer. Believe me I know from experience and speculation, when an "outsider" makes themselves present in the vicinity of this (loosely speaking) "stagnant" gene pool, they are often desired very highly by many members of the group. This is natures way of kicking up the libido when it has a chance to diversify. Without genetic diversification genes have no other recourse then to mutate. (take inbreeding as a good example... Where offspring are often born with from mild to wild mutations or proverbial handicaps) While mutation is a natural phenomenon, nature prefers diversification to mutation. (at least seemingly so and in my opinion, this is because mutation is unpredictable while diversification is a much more controlled change or as I like to call it a "soft" mutation.) While many would argue that our survival is no longer based on our genetic makeup, however, the precursor to our cush' lifestyle did have genetics play a key role. Therefore people who were more "attracted" to "suitable genetics" survived and so we carry now that same feeling (or genetic makeup for the feeling). Now I know that "attraction" and "suitable" are highly debatable objects so I won't go into them. Disregarding social, economic, environmental, or behavioral aspects of this dynamic (I'll admit, all key factors), what remains is your genetic desire for diversification. You may be drawn to those women that have the greatest disparity from you as you see it. Of course we are a visually stimulated species (especially men I might add, at least when it comes to sex), and the easiest disparity to immediately recognize is the variances in skin tone, and the genetic delineation we derive from our stereotyping of "a person of color" (a person not reflective of our own hue and tone). Which is to say, the differences in body types that we may associate with different ethnicities/races. When I say stereotyping I don't (necessarily) mean that in the derogatory sense of the word. There have been studies that show that people of one race can see greater variance within their own race then they can notice in another race, which is a way our mind tricks us by categorizing, or "stereotyping" differences into groups that are easy for us to navigate abstractly. In other words, I'm referring to the stereotypes our minds create because we cannot process all the subtleties of disparity outside of our own "group". Thus people with the instinctual (or learned for that matter) desire for diversification begin to see in other people the things that are perhaps most different from themselves and an attraction towards those "stereotypes" are born. This is a very natural leaning towards diversification that has been around since the dawn of genetics and will probably continue on until our -(the human race) gene pool has become so diverse that the reversal happens. The reversal being that genetics become so diverse as to be very similar. (An ebb and flow of genetic drift as it were). In the case where most people on the planet have a similar diversification of genes (which is to say that race has all but become null and void because interracial relationships have created an expansive new race that is ubiquitous). In this case, mutation may be a favored genetic trick and in that case our attractions will drift closer to the spectrum of sameness.
So.... sorry about all that... lol. Really let me boil it down a little and say that I too am often drawn towards women that are diverse from me. It could be related to skin pigmentation, height, weight, bone proportion, water and caloric retention, overall physique or a variety of other subtle factors. For whatever the reasons (if my postulations hold weight or not) I always enjoy the company of women that are "different" from me in a variety of ways. Besides, I love the visual contrast when I'm with a darker (or even paler) skin tone then me. My only suggestion is, like Jade said, be careful that you don't turn it into some type of fetish (which can come off as creepy), and also when delving into the realm of interracial relations, remember a few key factors. We do live in the 21st century and racism in and of itself is something dying I would like to think, but its dying slowly. Not all minds have come around to the realization that diversity in and of itself is a beautiful thing and we are ALL humans regardless of specific look. (Which is why I call it the human race.) I don't say that to dissuade you nor to say that other people might not approve of your decisions (I never really care if people don't like my decisions, I make the best ones I know how and I'm always true to myself - fuck the rest.) I say it because you have to ensure that in your own mind, (and it follows into your language) that you don't hold onto racists preconceptions or ideologies. Again I'm not suggesting that you are racist or anything like that at all. But many societies in years past have trained people to be racist without them even being aware of it. So I'm saying, be aware of yourself, be conscientious of the feelings of the people you interact with, and ultimately appreciate the diversity and the gift that nature has given us all. Life, love and the pursuit of happiness. Peace
Posted Mon Aug 08, 2011 10:59 PM
You must be a very good speculator....
And I think the term your looking for when you refer to 'stagnant gene pools' where people all have similar traits is 'homogenous'....just for future reference.
Posted Tue Aug 09, 2011 12:34 AM
I'd just like to add something about the cultural side of exogamy... It seems to me that some cultures value marriage within the same ethnicity, the same phenotype even. Others don't, and in fact consider mixing with people who look too similar a little taboo. I'm more of the latter considering that the Spanish had a long history of intermixing with the Arabs prior to coming to the Americas, and continued doing the same with the native population plus the slaves they brought from Africa. This does have an effect in the way you view the world as well.
Posted Fri Aug 12, 2011 08:00 PM
Indeed I don't even really like the idea of one night stands. I am quite happy for a female to get to know me on one night but I cannot stand the idea of just getting a girl for a night, fucking her and then never seeing her again. I am content to fuck a girl on the night I meet her but not to never see her again, I want a relationship after that. Every time I have had a one night stand it has left me emotionally upset for days afterwards.
Posted Sat Aug 13, 2011 01:15 AM
Pussy is pussy, black, white, red, blue, big, small, round or square. I have often seen white girls with bodies that I've seen on a black girl and vice versa.
Like I said maybe I don't understand the thread
Posted Tue Aug 16, 2011 01:26 PM
The interracial buzz is a good one. Always liked it. But like with looks in general, it wears off. And when it does, you better be with someone you can stand, or it is going to get bad quick. I had some pretty good people there when the buzz wore off. Did well.
Number one thing you want to avoid is baggage chicks (ie. racial baggage, chauvinistic baggage, ex-lover baggage, nationaility baggage). Sometimes people overthink it too. You are an individual (not your entire race) dating another individual (not their entire race). I've dated interracially, including black girls. And when I did, we were always friends among mutual friends first, good drinking buddies and fellow cut ups later. Then got to just hanging out together for regular stuff, it would get physical, and we began dating. So they were definitely not fetishes, experiments or other things I've heard (isn't this really just age old womanizing? interracial womanizing, seems people are putting more sinister racial overtones on it though, but it's the same as regular womanizing which happens all the time across all races, not great, but nothing that racially sinister or to take exception to racially). Not a big one-night stand guy, but I have done them and it was always very mutual & consensual with no misleading. I can tell you there is a lot of that going around on all sides with no foul. And I see nothing wrong with that either, all for it. Better to be less preoccupied by it all, than in a state of hyper-scrutiny. No one likes to be treated like a number.
There is a black girl here though, who is dying to meet white guys. Check her out, even if it doens't happen, you guys could become great chat buddies, bounce ideas off each other, share personal experiences, and learn stuff from each other's perspective.
Posted Tue Aug 16, 2011 06:36 PM
Interracial relationships and sex can be a subject that causes unease in some individuals, but I don't think it should be a problem. As stated above I am attracted to females of all ethnicities, but I had an experience that made me curious about black females. Black females certainly tend to have the curves that I like. I am a big and somewhat muscular guy with a pretty big penis and I think that a black BBW could be satisfied with my BWC.
Posted Wed Aug 17, 2011 06:32 AM
I dont't care if shes black,white yellow, avatar or a smurf, if she can't hold a sentence together and is annoying as a penis caught in a ant's nest then i don't want to know her.