Would like your comments
Posted Tue Aug 09, 2011 12:30 PM
Posted Tue Aug 09, 2011 01:37 PM
Posted Tue Aug 09, 2011 01:47 PM
much respect & best wishes,
This post has been edited by secretembracex: Tue Aug 09, 2011 01:59 PM
Posted Tue Aug 09, 2011 02:53 PM
What makes you think that a woman other than your wife would've been so radically different an experience? I my wife is the first person I had sex with, and I'm fine with that. Other womens' stuff isn't going to be different than the stuff your wife's got...thus, sticking your dick in another woman's stuff isn't going to alter your life at all. Initially your curiosity might be satisfied, but you wont find that you've grown at all or met any particular need.
Posted Tue Aug 09, 2011 04:25 PM
First off, you should never need anyone to "validate" you.
Second, I think I'm not understanding the question.
Are you missing out on sleeping with another woman? Man?
Have you been with another Man?
Has you wife been with someone else during the marriage?
If there is a fantasy involved, you should talk with your wife about it.
If you feel you missed out on something, you can't go back in time & sleep with that drunk cheerleader in college.
Unless you know Dr. Emmett Brown, & his DeLorean.
This post has been edited by BnLrKinky: Tue Aug 09, 2011 04:26 PM
Posted Wed Aug 10, 2011 05:48 AM
This post has been edited by MattJ: Wed Aug 10, 2011 05:50 AM
Posted Wed Aug 10, 2011 09:55 PM
Sexual encounters are not necessarily great. The sex could be bad, or your partner could give you a disease, or the relationship could make you unhappy ultimately, or the breakup if there is one could put you in a funk for a while. So if you are missing out it's not necessarily on something wonderful.
If you've been reading this board for a while you'll notice that the majority of guys here who are married are not having OK sex with the wife, so already you're doing better than average.
On the other hand (and I know I'll take a lot of flack for this) you only live once so if it's really important to you, you might consider asking your wife to let you do it for the experience. A lot of swingers have 50 extra pounds and some would let you have no strings sex with them if you had your wife's permission and you explained your situation clearly.
I think if the approach is right, you might get her to agree depending of course on the kind of person she is.
Posted Tue Aug 16, 2011 12:19 AM