Self conscious Self conscious about penis size
Posted Fri Aug 19, 2011 07:16 PM
Posted Fri Aug 19, 2011 10:41 PM
but when you are on the bed, size dosent matter instead duration does!
and i even think every woman will agree on that!
This post has been edited by ^-^Harry^-^: Fri Aug 19, 2011 10:42 PM
Posted Sat Aug 20, 2011 02:58 PM
Posted Sat Aug 20, 2011 04:21 PM
Oh, sometimes we care! I once had a failed one night stand with a man whose penis was way too big. He thought I was giving him the greatest compliment and I was thinking, "Why's this a good thing? We cannot have sex!"
But, as already noted, just about every man thinks their penises are too small, just like most of us women think that we are too fat, our butts are too big, and our boobs are too small. As long as you know how to use it and your partner appreciates it, don't worry! If your partner doesn't appreciate it, then it might be time to shop for a new partner.
Posted Sun Aug 21, 2011 12:15 PM
Posted Mon Aug 22, 2011 12:01 AM
Even when I look at accurate studies about penis size, I should be encouraged...I'm still wanting more. Studies where men are measured by staff and not themselves are exceedingly rare. A vast majority of these studies are done with men reporting their own sizes, kinda of like here...where half the guys claim penis sizes that put them in the top 1%. Studies where their penises are measured by the medical staff conducting the study, they reported sizes shrink.
Here's the largest staff measured study, done my Lifestyles condoms to determine if they're sizing condoms accurately...Measure you length and your circumference and compare it to what's provided here...you'll find that you're probably a lot better off than you thought.
This post has been edited by ilyushin79: Mon Aug 22, 2011 12:05 AM
Posted Mon Aug 22, 2011 12:11 AM
Maybe my wife just had an incredible string of FANTASTIC luck....but I sincerely doubt it.
For example, K1991, 5.5" puts one among the 'bigger' half of the male length spectrum, and if your avatar is your unit, you got it beat by a mile. (not literally)
As for girth, 4.75", which most men would regard is abhorridly small, is where the average guy is.
Posted Sat Sep 03, 2011 03:34 AM
what is a monster penis, when you dont know how to use it, woman really dont care about the size
Posted Wed Nov 09, 2011 02:49 AM
8 inches,thick,straight and gets n stays real hard.
Plus I know to use it for maximum effect.lol.
My foreskins a little tight thou not enuf to hinder its function when I'm extremely hard but thats the only issue.
I used to worry about its size and in my late teens i figured its prob below average in size but I learnt it is a quality tool n a skilled workman with quality equipment is always gonna be well appreciated.lol
Posted Wed Nov 09, 2011 02:34 PM
I came to accept my size with research and real life experiences also with the the help of the lovely gals on this forum. In fact, I'm quit proud of my partner now and my profile shows it lol.
It is indeed the motion of the ocean and not the size of the ship that counts. Learn to use what you have well along with your tongue and fingers.
This post has been edited by stovepoker72: Wed Nov 09, 2011 02:35 PM
Posted Wed Nov 09, 2011 05:45 PM
Now if i'd said size of your manhood it'd highlight the whole problem beautifully.
There's this mad notion thats reinforced more through puberty,teenage years n early adulthood that the bigger your cock the more of a 'real' man you are.The two things seem directly proportional.
At school all the big,aggressive,bully type lads that had matured physically a little in advance of the rest where always boasting about their huge dicks..
Is it any wonder men are self concious.
Its the hangover of high school and playground crap thats formed unrealistic ideas of the pre-emminance of size that we beat ourselves with.It aint the girls belittling us we do it to ourselves.
It was the girls that told me I was packing a big piece.
I thought I was on the small end of the scale not near the top.lol
Posted Tue Nov 15, 2011 05:05 PM
I have had one guy that his member was thick n long...hell, he didnt know how to use that meat stick for nuttin! Never got me off......
Most recent guy...now hes was average (6in) and good gosh! He knew how to use it and made me cum so extreme I damn near asked him to marry me! Damn I miss that man...he is the best thus far....damn damn damn...
Posted Wed Nov 16, 2011 06:38 AM
A couple of years later, she called me out of the blue and said she wanted to get back together because she had screwed up. She admitted to having fucked around on me and when I asked her if she had fucked a lot of guys in the past couple of years she said she had but it was only a quest to find a bigger dick. She found one (when she was living with me still) and it got her pregnant but the guy bolted. She never did have the baby because the dad was long gone.
Needless to say that's the last time I ever spoke to her and will never speak to her again. Tough lesson for her to learn.
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 12:37 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 12:48 AM
As for size, other posters have already said, it's more what you do with it than how big it is. If you feel really self conscious about your size, just do some extra homework on the female anatomy and erogenous zones, learn everything you can about being a great lover. Become an expert in the art of the tease and she'll love you no matter what size you are!
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 12:56 AM
Posted Tue May 22, 2012 09:50 AM
The problem is that all over the internet, you are going to see pics of guys with huge dicks. It's all part of evolutionary psychology -- males always want to show off their best assets. If they feel their penis is their best asset (which is truly sad), then they will flaunt it. The penis' all over the internet do not reflect the general norm.
Knowledge is power. If you truly know how to satisfy a woman, you'll never receive a complaint. I've been told by many girls that the guys with the biggest dicks are the worst in bed. They think they're God's gift to women and do the bare minimum in the sack (from what I've been told).
Any girl who judges you purely on that is a waste of space anyway. You may suck in bed, but it will have little to nothing to do with the size of your penis.