Tantric yoga sex ...
Posted Tue Aug 23, 2011 07:14 AM
Women are usually able to achieve a clitoral orgasm by touching or stimulating that part of our sex, in a manner that is essentially the same as men – the clitoris is our little penis, much smaller but more sensitive due to all the nerve ending tightly packed in there. For both sexes, because of friction, some amount of time is usually needed before coming again. Women, unlike men, are also able to achieve a vaginal orgasm due to other bundles of nerves that are located deeper inside. Deep rhythmic stimulation can bring on this other type which can be felt more broadly throughout the entire pelvis, and which gives pleasure by releasing long waves of pent-up muscle pressure. This second type is also associated with the G-spot, and squirting in some women because of the total relaxation of ducts that hold back our juices. Some women can also experience these two types at the same time, which feels even better, although this may require a larger man, or even multiple men in a row. Switching from clitoral to vaginal stimulation is also a great way to give your sex time to recover, and to get ready for the next orgasm. Apologize if I sound too clinical but I just want to be clear so there is no confusion.
Now as it turns out, both women and men are also able to achieve yet another type of orgasm, which is of much greater intensity and duration than these two common types. Unfortunately it is very difficult to reach it and it requires a lot of practice, training and devotion, but once you get there, it is well worth all the patient work, which can be a lot of fun as well. The first thing to understand is that it cannot be achieved unless you are able to focus and concentrate, i.e. meditate, on almost absolutely nothing, which is easier said than done. Training for this is typically done through hatha yoga, and my preference is hot hatha yoga because it’s very hard to cheat yourself doing that. A regular practice of hatha yoga, be it ashtanga or bikram which I prefer, will eventually train your mind to focus totally inwards on your inner self.
This is important because tantric sex is not about typical sexual stimulation and genital friction, but rather about masturbating yourself with your inner mind. The best and most erotic way to do this is with a tantra partner, and in a position where Shiva (the man) and Shakti (the woman) unite in Yab Yum.You can find little statues on the web that show how to get into this position. The man sits in a lotus, and the woman sits on top him, wrapping her legs around his waist and sliding his penis deep into her pussy. This is best done after a lot of foreplay, or even sex, and with good pillows that make the position comfortable since it can take a while before the magic happens. Once in position, there must be no movement whatsoever of the lower body, with both tantra partners going into deep meditation, focusing their mind entirely on feeling their partner’s sex. While this may sound easy to do, in practice it is very difficult to do without moving at all, i.e. wanting to rock and fuck, but it is holding back that feeling of wanting to physically fuck that eventually triggers the explosions to come, and there is no other way to get there.
It’s also not a good idea to distract each other by kissing, licking or touching, even though you are so close together and the urge to do that will become unbearable after a short while. It’s really all about sexual control, and mental focus, and really feeling what is happening to your partner through your own sex. The woman’s pussy will soon feel extremely hot, and very thick and very wet, and the scent of her sex will fill the room. The man will gradually grow longer and thicker far more than usual, and his spine will straighten which will get his cock much deeper into you. As your pussy stretches to accommodate him, the primal urge to fuck will increase and can be relieved by directing your mind to squeeze your pussy on his cock, which will soon establish a rhythm between you and him – this is a whole other level of fucking, just sex to sex without moving your hips at all.
After some period of time, much less for those that are well experienced, the tantric orgasm will come on, very slowly at first, rising from the base chakra which is near your anus, and which will start to pulsate, climbing up your spine like a current, which is called kundalini, all the way to your crown chakra deep in your head. Once the feeling reaches there the kundalini will return downwards, and rock your world like absolutely nothing else, and then climb back up again, and back down, and so on until it subsides. It can take several minutes to subside, so it’s a very long orgasm and will leave you totally breathless, and unable to move for a little while.
A male tantra master can control himself to the point of having this same type of orgasm along with you without physically coming, i.e. ejaculating, and so can stay rock hard for a very long time, many hours in fact from years of self-discipline. Likewise, a woman that is in good shape from regular yoga practice, and that can learn to breathe smoothly through the intense waves of pleasure, can also come this way many times, because there is no physical friction that requires recovery between each orgasm. If you can find a master its really the ultimate sexual experience between a man and a woman.
It takes patience, first with learning how to focus and meditate through regular yoga practice, and then learning how to develop the sexual control and self-discipline that allows you to eventually experience the magic of tantric sex. For me it took almost three years, but I’ve been withsome girlfriends that were able to learn in less time, especially if they already did yoga for exercise. In terms of finding the right type of partner for this, I’ve always found my guruji visiting yoga studios, mostly bikram now, and I usually look for the more mature looking guys, that smile and have that knowing look in their eyes when you make eye contact with them. They are rare and hard to find, but they are out there.
If this sounds like it may be your thing, good luck and feel free to chat me up. Yoga changed my life, and I’m sure it can change yours as well. -suz
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This post has been edited by Mr. Banger: Wed Aug 24, 2011 03:30 PM
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Posted Tue Oct 04, 2011 02:56 PM
I normally don't care about clitoral orgasms anymore... If somebody really wants to give me oral, I let him just for his pleasure, but I can live without. I use my G-spots (with squirting) mostly as a stepping stone to get into a more pleasurable state where I can reach a cervical orgasm (A-spot or cul-de-sac)... However, this one is not easy to come by mostly because I need a long-time to get there and on stages.
The other type is a breast orgasm, but that one I've only experienced a couple of times when I was lactating... I wish I could have it again.
And definitely, I'm restarting my yoga this week...
This post has been edited by Olive: Tue Oct 04, 2011 02:57 PM
Posted Mon Oct 10, 2011 02:34 AM
Does this need one/one guidance, or are there videos for me and partner?
Posted Tue Nov 29, 2011 11:09 AM
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