The mind is a powerful sex tool always at your disposal. The imagination never stops working to finish the sexual puzzles we see every day.
“what’s the rest of that tattoo look like under the waistline of those pants”
“I’d like to see whats causing that bulge in his pants”
Its the imagery we see and even if you don’t want to admit it to others I am certain you have your brain asking questions of this or similar nature that is started by your sexual libido. Or maybe you just repress it all. Shame on you.
As a species that has sex for fun why would you want to not enjoy it?
The best thing about the fantasy realm is that you can control every aspect of it. You are the creator of your kingdom and can shape it any way you please. Not only do you control the who, but the where and when not to mention the complete environment down to their personalities. How great is that! We all spend time enjoying the visual stimuli around us. How about turning out the lights, putting on some headphones and going to town with yourself and your imagination for a few hours. If your partner is into jointly vocalizing their fantasies even better so let it run as wild as you want. Since you are in control of it there isn’t anyone involved that won’t listen to you. Unless that is what you want of course. Joint sharing and participation in each others fantasies is a wonderful thing and couples should be enjoying that. How can sharing your deepest sexual desires that you fantasize about not bring you closer? I would call that a deeper level of intimacy because in most cases you don’t share the super sexy fantasies with just anyone.
Alas I am afraid most do not. In our current time of existence there seems to be too much fear of judgement, labeling, being outcast, laughed at, thinking that it is what you want in reality, your partner thinking that you aren’t happy with them, or any number of other backlash you will get for enjoying that erotic trip of the mind. To that I will say "good day sir".
Isn’t confidence erotic and sexy?
Let's open up and share with others when we have the chance
Lets be free with our partners about out fantasies and they with us
Let us all enjoy that ride.