how does one start over? i mean this is the first time i have been single since my teens and i don't even know where to start... I've never actually dated or tried to. i don't even know what to do. when i get nervous i tend to talk to much and that's not normally me... i don't have a very good self image although I've been told I'm attractive... its just the main man in my life for 25 years lost interest and i lost confidence... I'm not very good with crowds and have always been more of a loner... except for a small circle of people. I want to start again with my life but I don't know where or how to begin... any suggestions?