Well, I have to say that it hasn't been the best of weekends. My Aunt who has been sick with acute leukemia for about 2 months now passed on early Saturday morning. My Aunt Bernice was 86 and she was more like a Grandma to me than an Aunt. My Grandpa moved her into his house with him and my Gma back in '70 without even asking my Gma is she minded or anything. So, there my aunt was living with my Gma and Gpa without my Gma's blessing. She stayed there for 12 years. I was born in 71 so I basically grew up my "playful" years with my aunt living with them.
She was the one who would get down on the floor and play with me as a child and play my little games with me. My Gma was the proper type that always looked ready to go out with a drink in her hand. So, I bonded more with my aunt than I did with me Gma at that point in time in my life.
When I got into my teens I realized what was happening and made an effort to get closer to my Gma, but my Aunt Bernice will always be my favorite aunt. I have many fond memories of her.
So, we have calling hours on Tuesday for her from 5 to 7. I have to be there around 4:30 because I'm family. BBW will get there when he can. Said he'd try and get off work early, but he's so backed up at work I doubt he'll be getting there with the family.
Then that leads me into so many other things that are going on right now I don't even know where to start. This bank that took him in when he needed a job so badly 6 years ago was so nice. They're moto is "family friendly". Well, we've found out thats true, as long as you don't have any health problems. My mind isn't thinking clearly right now with everything going on, but I know that they told him he could work from home. Let him set up a whole new computer system for the bank, get everyone set up on it and now that that's all done they changed their minds and he's now not allowed to work from home anymore.
He's also, NOT SICK ENOUGH to be on dialysis yet to make him feel better. The dr. told him he wants him "as docile as a kitten". BBW will NEVER be as docile as a kitten! But, this is what he wants. I have to say though that BBW is about the strongest man I know physically and mentally.
I can't keep my thoughts together anymore. I may write more later, but as for now, it's down time for me. Later journal.