When I first heard her say that she was interested in a threesome, I thought great who's the girl. Well to much of my surprise, she had wanted to try it both ways. You know, two girls one guy and two guys and one girl. At first I was a little hesitant; however, since I have a pretty open mind about things. I figured lets talk about it. So I asked her what is it that you want out of this. Although fearful that I was inadequate, it was really just the feeling of being taken by two men at the same time. I found myself kinda turned on by this. I mean this was her in the truest of forms, I found that to be very sexy.
Also I came to realize that any jealousy I had before was really rooted in the fact that I didn't know what she wanted or even knew what was on her mind about a lot of things. Not to say that after 8 years of being together your don't get to know a person, but it was these deep dark regions of primal passion and raw desires that had me scared. After listing to her speak with me for hours on end day after day, I started to feel more and more comfortable with the idea. I even started to imagine what it was be like.
At first that was terrifying, really what guy wouldn't be. As time went on and we had more discussions we really came to a point where we could confidently speak with each other about what we want in our relationship. We even setup ground roles that allowed us even further comfort with the idea. However, this is were the true test comes into play, actually going through with it. So we decided to take it a little slow, and really just start talking other other couples or single women who are interested to get their take on it.
Oh, we decided not single men as she felt they wouldn't respect our boundaries. It deals with the idea that as single men tend to be competitive and their would be conflict, but with couples their would be a natural set boundary to the aggressive side of us. So yeah, here we are, we promise more pictures soon, we just need to set things up so it doesn't look bad. If that makes sense.
Well thanks for reading and hope to hear from people soon.