I wonder, have you ever looked at a girl and thought she's fat, not knowing that she's lost 20 pounds and is on track to losing more? Have you ever looked at a girl and thought "Eew, she's too skinny." Did you stop to think that she's battling being anorexic? or looked at someone and thought "wow they're perfect, I wish I was just like them" and they're battling bulimia, or depression. The grass is always greener isn't it? Some people are so conceited and think that they're so much better. Don't get me wrong, personal preference is great, if you're attracted to a certain type of person I'm not expecting you do change that based upon what other people may or may not be trying to fix about themselves. But there is no 1 ideal body type, and just because people may not match yours, doesn't mean they don't match someones. That's what I love about this site, people are not as judgmental here as they are other places. I've seen a couple of posts that one would consider offensive, but that may just be my opinion.