Ok, so all my life I have delt with shyness. In person i'm honestly quite shy, that linked with me being over 6'5'' and somone who listens to "devil music" (metal, horrorcore, hardcore... that type of thing) people are not really running up to talk to me either. Well to make a long drawn out thing short. Dose anyone have any real life tips to getting over being shy? I know it's all in my head and blabade blah-ba-de blah. That dosen't change anything! Girls, How would it be most affective for a guy like me to approach you, not for anything more then a conversation just to randomly walk up and talk. Guys, do any of you have any tips on how to do that same thing or how you got over your problems like this?