I recently thought about the sex toy collection Mr._C. and I have, and I realized that we don't have even one toy meant specifically for his male pleasure. All our toys are in some way meant for my female pleasure. We have a glass "dildo" - it's a smaller "teaser" - the Hitachi Magic Wand (no attachments yet), a cock ring and attached dildo for DP, and a set of anal beads, and those toys are the highlights of our collection. All meant for my pleasure - even the cock ring part of the cock ring and dildo because it's meant to keep him harder for longer in order to please me more. So I decided that Mr._C. deserves to own a sex toy made for men and intended to provide pleasure for him only. Enter the Fleshlight.
Mr._C.'s reaction to the Fleshlight upon opening the package seemed positive. He seemed surprised but not necessarily embarrassed, which is a very good thing. He said, "Yeah?" - in a tone that said, "Really?" He seemed curious. I explained all the features and how to use the toy. There are three openings you can buy for the insert/sleeve - a mouth, a vagina, and an anus. I bought the vaginal opening sleeve. Also, the inside of the sleeve can contain one of several different textures - there are inserts to simulate oral, vaginal, and anal sex - and there's even a vibrating version of the Fleshlight. I told him that he should take the insert/sleeve out of the Fleshlight and soak it in hot water for a few minutes before he uses it to create the realistic warmth of a real vagina. Also, he must use water-based lube because other types may deteriorate the Fleshlight insert material. I showed him how to adjust the smaller end cap to create the tightness and suction he wants. I really hope he could tell that I did my research before buying this toy for him.
We didn't use it right away, so I'll give you my review of how the Fleshlight looks and feels just from me checking it out and touching it with my hands. Click here to view my gallery pictures of the Fleshlight.
1. Appearance of the case
The Fleshlight is quite large. Please see the pictures at the bottom of this blog entry for a size comparison with some common objects. The large opening is about the same size around as the opening of a plastic party cup, and the Fleshlight handle is about the same size around. The Fleshlight stands about as tall as an air freshener can. Mr._C. and I were both a bit surprised at the large size.
However, although the toy looks subtle enough from the pictures, it's not a wise idea to "hide" it in the kitchen junk drawer as it is obviously not a flashlight upon second glance. It's made of relatively lightweight plastic, doesn't have a lens, and says "Fleshlight" down the side. If you choose to put this toy where someone may see it, you're not hiding anything for long. As I said - maybe no one will notice at first glance, but if they look again, they'll know it's not a regular flashlight, LOL. I found a place in a dresser drawer underneath some linens to hide Mr._C.'s toy for easy access when he decides that he wants to use it.
2. Appearance of the vaginal opening
The large cap of the toy comes off to reveal the opening - in this case a vaginal opening including the vaginal lips and a little clitoris at the top of the vaginal slit. The insert/sleeve is appropriately pink. There is obviously no pubic hair, but otherwise, the vulva is definitely realistic. The vulva is fleshy to the touch when I press down into it but more firm and seemingly more dense than my own vulva when I do the same "pressing in" motion against my pubic bone. However, it does feel relatively realistic. The vaginal lips feel real - I can even pull gently on the lips, and they react by stretching as my own real vaginal lips do. Also, the clit is essentially perfect. When I rub it in circles as I do my own real clit when I pleasure myself, the Fleshlight clit feels 100% real. The SuperSkin material, which is patented by the makers of the Fleshlight, feels soft and almost velvety to the touch. I can't say that it feels "rubbery" as that's not really accurate.
Also, the size of the vagina is appropriate. It doesn't seem quite life-size, but it's very close - maybe 2/3 or even 3/4 the size of my own vulva. Looks and feels like nothing I've ever touched before - and I'm impressed by the effort that seems to have gone into designing and making this toy.
3. The sleeve
The vaginal opening looks real and is in the appropriate place. When I use one finger and then two fingers to feel the inside of the insert/sleeve, I can definitely feel the tightness and suction. It does feel very realistic, and I can imagine that with some water-based lube for wetness it would feel just like a real pussy does. Especially once the insert is removed and soaked in hot water for a few minutes to raise the temperature.
The insert I bought with the Fleshlight is just a regular tube insert. There are inserts that go with the other types of openings as well - an insert with a tighter back end to simulate oral sex and deepthroating with the mouth opening and a tighter insert to simulate anal sex with the anus opening. There are also inserts with little nubs and other massaging tips for different sensations.
4. The smaller end cap
The smaller end has a smaller cap that can be used to adjust the tightness and suction inside the insert/sleeve for maximum pleasure and comfort. The cap can be tightened all the way for maximum tightness and suction. It can be twisted loose for less tightness and suction. It can be twisted all the way off for minimum tightness and suction. (Honestly, when I fingered the Fleshlight - with the end cap closed completely, loose, and completely removed from the end of the toy - I didn't notice a difference in how the tightness and suction felt on my fingers. Maybe the difference is more easily felt by a real cock...?)
5. Additional materials
With the Fleshlight, I also received a "Care and Usage Guide," a small package of their "Water" Fleshlube (they also have "Fire" and "Ice" types of Fleshlube, which I can only assume are warming and cooling lubes), and - seemingly - a "free gift" of a surprisingly formidable cat-o'-nine-tails with leather straps. Mr._C. and I didn't use that either, but I honestly can see it packing quite a sting. Overall, a pleasantly completely package indeed.
6. Care and cleaning
The Fleshlight seems simple to clean and care for. The "Care and Usage Guide" is helpful. By squeezing and taking out the SuperSkin vaginal insert/sleeve, you can clean both the sleeve and the case of the Fleshlight. Allow to air dry for maximum delicacy when cleaning the toy.
7. My overall review so far
Overall, the Fleshlight seems quite promising. It looks and feels pretty real. Although you'll need a hiding place away from the eyes of guests and family and friends (and snooping children, if you have any), the outer appearance of the toy is good for at least a first glance. It's rather large, but it does look like a flashlight at first glance. The SuperSkin material is like nothing I've ever felt before. It feels and looks like a real vulva - the realism of the vaginal lips and clitoris are impressive. Soaked in hot water and using water-based lube, the Fleshlight seems to be able to provide the realistic tightness, suction, warmth, and wetness of a real vagina. It really is a multi-faceted toy, and I'm looking forward to giving you more information once Mr._C. and/or I actually use it.
Please read the second part of my review for more information.
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