Haha, Basically right now I am just thinking about how to really talk about this, and hoping that no one on the forums will take offence, is so I apologise greatly.
So let's start with that element I started with last time, that is suiters, at conventions I wont pretend or hide the fact that there is sex, and suiters have sex in other situations as well of course, not always just at conventions, after all some people simply enjoy the sexual experience of being in a furry suit.
Now the actual individual experience and sexuality of a suiter can vary as much as anyone's can, some suiters have relationships with single people, long term and lasting, but only have the interest in wearing a fur suit or partially suit/accessories during sex or during life in general. There are also suiters who engage in many one night stands, or group sex at conventions, or special meet ups. Most conventions do not encourage random sex but have no right to put limitations on convention goers activities when said conventioneers are back in their own rooms.
Now when it comes to how suiters do have sex this varies allot as well, in the common full length furry suit there are rarely any openings, so suiter sex tends to consist of rubbing up against other furries, in a kind of advanced dry humpping. However some suit makers produce suits with opening panels that allow furries to engage in real sex, and some even rarer and more expensive suits have more detailed openings that mimic anthropomorphised genitalia and act as ways for furries to have sex while in their suits.
Of course for those who are into partial suits or accessories find it easier to have full blown sex, indeed if the people involved are only into Nekotisation (Neko being Japanesse for cat, but also being a colloquial term for people with animal ears and tails but otherwise completely normal bodies) then they don't really have any restrictions that stop them engaging in normal sex.
Now of course when you think about it, the whatfore and where about suiters isn't too hard to figure out, and they are normal people, some into monogamy some into polygamy. And when it comes to their fetishes they are just the same as normal people in that they range from one extreme to another, and range all across the whole spectrum of differing kinks and fetishes.
Some are interested in vaginal, some oral, some anal, some handjobs some any mix of the above, bondage, S&M, gentleness, ... everything a normal person might be interested in might indeed intrest a suiter. The only difference tends to be that suiters tend to find the suits themselves, the fur, the shape, the feel etc to be stimulating, which is something none suiters don't tend to feel, cause well... if they felt that way they'd be suiters wouldn't they.
Now I mentioned Suiters, and I went so far as to include Nekotisation people in the suiter group, because they wear ears and a tail, but in IRL there is also another group of furries who include the furry community in their sexual activities, and these are the furries who merely include furry noises and actions into their general sexual activities.
This tends to be in monogamist relationships, though it can be involved in polygamist relationships, group sex etc. Furry actions include particular ways and intentions in movement, scratching and biting with the intent of mimicking anthropomorphic creatures.
The main thing however is including furry noises, such as purring, hissing, barking, meowing, howling, growling, and all sorts of other noises.
Along with this the furries in this group tend to also use furry terms among themselves, both in the bedroom and outside of it, terms like muzzle, paw, haunch, scritch, yiff, etc.
And finally we move on to those that enjoy the more imaginative side, in a sense, of the furry communities sexual activities, this includes the sexual oriented art, Erotica Stories, and of course Cybering.
Now when it comes to this group descriptions and details tend to be quite important, because of course that tends to be what is important in most cybering, it tends to be where the erotic pleasure comes from, just as with erotica stories.
Again this group ranges from those who engage in long term long distance relationships and regularly cyber or get together, those who don't cyber at all but just have relationships within the furry community too... worth a mention even in a blog about furry sexuality. Those who cyber with different partners regularly, those who just meet whoever and cyber.
It's a reasonably large community, and again just as with any other gathering of sexually interactive people the fetishes expressed tend to range quite far and wide. Although within the furry communities sexually active groups there tend to be a couple of specifics that seem to be accepted as generally there, one of course is a fetish for anthropomorphised animals, another for fur, and one of the generally accepted fetishes also tends to be abnormal sexes, such as futanari (those with both genitalia, also known as herms) and other similar mix gender creations, perhaps it is the freedom of acknowledging that anthropomorphised animals in general don't exsist that allows people to include other similarly none existent things within their roleplay without concern for realities limitations. They of course run the gambit of your usual fetishes, from bondage, to S and M, to all sorts.
Most people within the furry sexual community, and in fact within the furry community in general whether or not they engage in it as part of their sexual life or just as a community they are part of, tends to have a furry avatar, a furry self.
Some people have multiple forms, and this tends infact to be those who are much more interested in the sexual side than the community side. Totemics, Suiters, and general people who are part of the community tend to choose an avatar that fits them, that they identify with or that they discover and stick to that one avatar.
Myself for anyone who is interested, I have a single furry avatar, that I Identify with. It is a tall, reasonably fit young white snow rabbit, white from head to toe, with perky straight and not floppy ears, :D.
Now when it comes to the negative image that the furry community receives one of the major things that is indicative of this miss understanding of the community, does come from the sexual side of the community. And this comes to one of the points I wanted to raise which is perhaps one of the ones least likely to be understood.
Within the sexual side of the furry community, there is allot of sexual art, erotica, and groups, including cybering groups, in which the sexual appearance of anthropomorphised animals is very close to that of their none anthropomorphised cousins, and within these sexual areas of the community, this likeness extends to anatomy that is used and engaged in the sexual acts the community discusses, represents in art, and engages in, in cyber.
And by this of course I mean, anthropomorphised animal genitalia, as well as anthropomorphised bodies. Now if has become the habit of allot of furry artists to represent anthropomorphised genitalia on their art, and indeed if one follows the logical chain of anthropomorphisation one might suggest that such genitalia would indeed be the norm.
And the representation of this genitalia is for around 98% of the community nothing to do with an interest in sexual activities with animals, however it is understandable and easily so why the majority of human beings see it as such an expression of interest and why this creates the mistaken belief that all furrys are interested in such things.
The fact that only a portion of the furry community is even involved in the sexual side of it, probably i admit a larger portion, but still only part, and that of that part a very small number of individuals, probably no higher than the overall percentage of individuals in the populace of the world, are interested in sex with animals, is not widely known and is not really on many peoples minds when they make snap decisions and opinions about furries.
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