Maybe soap opera is a little too harsh, but that is what it seems like lately. Relationships are a great thing, but many of them have deep problems that aren't always seen. By looking at me and my fiance, you wouldn't think so though. We are on of those couples that look perfect (so I have been told), but behind closed doors, we are just the opposite. I have too many things going on in my life right now between family, college, and her. It seems like every three days there is a twist that gets thrown into the mix. I am one to look on the bright side of things when possible. She doesn't see things so positively, and actually she sees them completely negatively. So with all of this my life seems to be laden with drama, despite my constant fight to avoid it. Anyone else find this to be a problem?