I learned to experience profound and intense anal pleasure without ever having had a penis up my rectum. I can have anal orgasms and not be gay. I have learned to relish anal touch and the ultimate male sexual experience . . . prostate orgasms.
Anal massage can be a great introduction to anal pleasure and the profound relaxation it brings. Once a guy is comfortable with anal touch it is possible to move into anal penetration and mind blowing prostate orgasms.
Even though anal pleasure in all its dimensions can yield amazing sensations, profound relaxation, intense orgasms, and vastly enhanced sexual performance many guys view their assholes as places of apprehension and shame.
When I first began to experiment with anal stimulation I was surprised as are most guys, how much pleasure I could experience from a simple external anal massage, And when I graduated to penetration and prostate stimulation it was like being reborn. I discovered a whole new experience of sex that was so intense and exquisite it can only be described as pleasurable agony.
I suggest an external anal massage as the best initial step to help you fully experience anal pleasure before you make the leap to penetration.
The leap to deep anal stimulation is a huge one for many guys. A guy receiving anal pleasure is one of the big sexual taboos that guys refuse to acknowledge and talk about. That doesn't mean that we all don't think about anal sex, it's only that we are afraid to talk about it.
The pleasure of anal stimulation carries deep homosexual connotation and makes guys feel ashamed of it. When I began to pursue anal orgasms I began to delve into current practices and techniques; I did a lot of research. The reading and research that I have done revealed a slow change in societies attitude about male anal orgasms. There is a small but growing population of us who are more open to receiving anal pleasure as a sexual pursuit. But it is still hard for the majority of guys to satisfy their curiosity.
A guy’s anus is still considered as dirty, as a kind of sewer, and some guys don't want to think about it as a source of sexual pleasure. Beyond that the fear of being branded as gay is too much for many guys’ egos.
The perineum, million dollar spot, anal opening, rectum and prostate are the key anal erogenous spots in guys. The landscape between my balls and rectum, the mouth of my anus and the first 4 inches inside my anal canal is full of nerve connections with the capacity to trigger intense sexual responses. All of the nerves that control male sexual response such as arousal, feelings of pleasure, erection, pre cum emission, orgasmic contractions, involuntary pulsing of the penile bulb, ejaculation and erotic sensitivity around the perineum and balls all converge inside my rectum around my prostate.
To access this deep pleasure center and experience the full complexity of male anal orgasm a guy needs to look at the anal orgasm in the same the way a woman looks at a vaginal orgasm. We must feel comfortable, safe, relaxed and open to the experience. We must also be very mindful, and in the moment. The experience of anal pleasure requires a very high level of body awareness. A male anus requires gentle treatment if you are going to coax it to be sexually responsive.
One of the objections we may find when we think about anal penetration is the natural fear of pain. With care, lubrication and relaxation it is possible to experience anal pleasure and orgasm free of pain. Check my thread on prostate pleasure to learn more.
So why do it some guys might ask? For me the incentive was a couple of things.
First, my initial experience of anal pleasure was from anal and perineal massage. The sense of deep peace and relaxation that I derived from this was both erotic and profoundly moving. I was frozen and immobilized by the sweet bliss that flooded my body as J did me. She ended it in a hand job which put me to sleep in moments. The sense of nurturing love as she savored my equipment watched me sink into blissful peace only to erupt in a shuddering ejaculation moments later made us feel incredibly close.
As I found out more about prostate massage and male multiple orgasms I was intrigued and curious. It was a curiosity that went unrewarded until I discovered prostate massagers. Although my initial experience with prostate massage was unremarkable and irritating, I persisted. By reading, participating in on line forums and experimenting I was able to have my first prostate orgasm.
That first prostate orgasm was indescribable. The pleasure was so deep, intense and expansive I struggled to cope with it. It was a combination of a very - very intense tickling itch and a powerful electrical jolt. My fists clenched and unclenched and my toes splayed as my legs trembled. I gasped as I lost control of my body in agonizing sexual bliss for the first time.
Lastly I discovered that anal orgasms reinforced and strengthened the other aspects of my sexuality. I was more sexually aware and aroused after I had them. My sexual response and performance was more powerful and my entire outlook on my sexual and non sexual life had been altered for the better.
To open the door to this incredible experience, the first thing a guy needs to do is shed the shame and fear. Be open to discovering the wonders that male sexuality has to offer.
As mindful sexually attuned men we need to slow down and learn to savor the sensual dimensions of our sexuality and not rush like hells afire to achieve orgasm. The biggest roadblock to a deep and satisfying multilayered – extended orgasm is the rush to cum; that in and of itself is the biggest enemy of a mind blowing anal orgasm.
We need to be open and adventurous in our pursuit of sexual sensation and be confident in our masculinity to go places that are just a little outside our norm.
Trust me …if you do these things you will be richly rewarded.
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