Vulnerability. There is something very sexy about being vulnerable. For me standing before my sexy woman as she eyes me from top to bottom, is very arousing. But when her eyes stop and dwell on my cock and I see her looking at me, I harden instantly. As many times as J has seen me in the buff when I get out of the shower and my balls are hanging low and I am in that weird semi erect state I never fail to attract her eye. She has told me many times that my cock in a semi soft state really turns her on. She has also told me that having my soft cock in her mouth and feeling it swell and harden in her mouth as it grows out of her mouth leaving only the tip on her tongue is also a big turn on.
Control. I have been told by J and other women that they find sucking a guy to be so sexy because it is an overt sex act that women are in control of. There is a lot of power in fellatio. J has told me that she likes the visual experience of sucking my cock; she can see my facial expressions change, and my body movements responding to her mouth caress. I will gently thrust into her mouth or stroke her hair as my arousal builds. I have learned to savor thet growing arousal and the special feeling of being close to her and having her intimately hold me in her mouth as the sensation fills me up. I will often have out of body experiences as I meditate and hold back the violent need I have to cum in her mouth. Control here is very erotic for me.
Talk. One of the other things that I have known for a long time is that she loves giving me narrated hand jobs. I am a guy and she knows that male egos love to be stroked especially as she is stroking my hardened cock. Most of the time she will just describe what she sees and feels. From these narrated tug sessions I have been able to hear what turns her on. She loves the firm yet fleshy weight of my erect cock and she loves the heat of it in her hand. In addition, she loves the sight of my reddened stiff organ pulsing and spewing cum onto my belly while she holds it and watches in fascination. Again in the act of making me cum, beyond the visual excitement she feels of watching me spewing she loves the control that she exerts over me. The idea that she is in control of my cock and she can give me pleasure and cause me to give something from deep inside of my body as I am consumed by orgasm is a huge turn on
This idea of her having power and control over me and my experience of bliss is very erotic.
It is very much the same for me. I have described in great detail in many of these entries how I feel about J.’s pussy. For me the visual excitement is definitely a big part of it as well. I love the form and shape of her vulva, the swell of her mons and the sweet pink cleft that marks the opening of her sex. I am totally in awe of the tender silky lips and the dark pink opening to her vagina. Like her I am totally turned on to see the thick white creamy flow drooling from the mouth of her vagina when she is deeply aroused and in orgasm.
Loss of Inhibitions. As her lover I have always been the assertive one, she likes for me to be “in charge” when we make love, I like the gentle strength that I can exert as I coax her to give into the deep and intense sensation of her climax. But what really turns me on is seeing her lose control. By most people’s standards she is a very proper person. But like the song says: “no one knows what goes on behind closed doors”. As her arousal grows, her inhibitions melt away. In the moments leading up to orgasm she will verbalize the raunchiest fantasies and twist and thrust her pelvis in wild and erotic abandon. I have commented before in this blog that in orgasm she has unabashedly shows me how elegantly vulgar she can be. Seeing her lose her inhibitions is a big turn on for me.
The last entry I made on cunnilingus talked about the eroticism of that at length. I recently also commented about it on a thread. I believe that the visual experience of her climax up close is very erotic, but as much the aspect of cunnilingus that is also very erotic is the intimate trust that it requires.
I recently wrote in a thread that the act of making love to her pussy with my mouth is a huge turn on for both of us. For me it is the visual appeal and the mouth feel of her aroused pussy. But for her there is also the issue of trust.
Trust. Despite her insecurities and worries whether her pussy is clean enough, sexy enough, or whether she has an unpleasant scent, or that it doesn’t look pretty enough, she will take my face in her hands and direct my mouth to this place where her insecurities are rampant and she will place my lips between her thighs on her nether lips. She does this with a great deal of trust. Despite all of her insecurities, she is not embarrassed as I share her most intimate experience with my face against the place that is the center of that female insecurity. Her trust in me and her willingness to allow me to share the experience of her rapture as it is happening is very erotic. The act of witnessing the very juicy, vulgar and beautiful response of her cunt in orgasm is in and of itself very erotic for both of us. Many times in orgasmic rapture she will tell me to watch what she is doing and describing to me what she is feeling through gritted teeth as an orgasm is squeezing her pussy. The act of her describing the exquisite feelings in a part of her body that she is anxious about is very erotic; many times she has said to me in the midst of her orgasmic paroxysms: “ You make me do dirty things, you make me so dirty. . . you turn me into such a slut but I don’t care”
Warm skin. Lying together naked just kissing and stroking each others bodies is one of the most intimate things we do. The feeling of her breasts on my chest, or her vulva pressed on my thigh as her inner thigh is resting on my penis as we kiss and caress languidly is some of the sweetest time we spend with each other. Each night I can’t wait to get in bed with her and feel her sexy warmth against me. Body heat is so erotic . . .
Sexual fluids. When J is experiencing deep arousal or the bliss of orgasm, her vagina will respond by expressing a rich cocktail of sexual fluids. The joy of savoring those fluids for me is so erotic. Again it has to do with the trust, but it is more. I think it has to do with the fact that this fluid expression is evidence of the deep and intense sexual response that she has with me. Her body cannot lie, and she has no choice but to share her sexual spendings with me.
Sex researchers talk about fluid bonding. I put great credence in fluid bonding. When she is holding my cock softly and lovingly in her mouth as my balls and prostate pulse and empty my cream onto her tongue or when she is stiffened in orgasm, thrusting her pelvis and grinding her clit against my tongue to deliver her own honey into my mouth there is a very intimate bond that is formed. The combination of face to genital experience of orgasm but more importantly consuming the liquid result of that orgasm in your mouth is indeed a bonding experience.
These are only a few of the mental meanderings I had this morning. I scribbled them down quickly after I got into the office so that I could jot them down tonight in this entry. This is not a thorough and exhaustive entry . . . I will probably add to it over the next few months. It is a start. It is what I thought about my sexy wife and what drives her wild when I drove to work on a Weds morning.
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