Posted by hrspwr , Thu Mar 15, 2012 09:57 PM
That's the ugly truth about the Swing Lifestyle. You will never find that perfect couple where everybody is mutually attracted to each other. If you manage to meet and all have sex, somebody is "taking one for the team".
The last couple we played with were pretty typical. We didn't have much in common other than the desire for extra-marital sex. We had met them for dinner and drinks before, but when we suggested taking the party to a hotel room they weren't interested. About a month later they called us and suggested we come over. We mostly sat (my wife and I on one couch and they on the other) and talked about everything but sex. I tried to steer the conversation to sex and swinging, but it mostly steered back. Eventually I suggested to the other husband that we trade places. His wife had nice legs and I was looking forward to getting my hands on them. He agreed and they immediately asked us if we wanted same or seperate rooms.
As soon as he and my wife went into the bedroom, she stripped and had me do the same. Before I had a chance to get hard she went down on me. It was incredible. She told me later that feeling a cock harden in her mouth is a huge turn on. I insisted on returning the favor. We traded spots. She sat on the couch and I knelt down on the floor in front of her. I started with my tongue on her clitoris before inserting my finger. I had softened quite a bit by the time I got the condom on, but hardened right up as soon as I was inside her and had slid her hips to the edge of the couch. I wished I could have lasted longer, but I lasted long enough for her to orgasm.
Things weren't so good for him and my wife. He was willing to try again another time with her, but she isn't very motivated. She's willing to go there again if it means that I get laid, but that's about it.
So how can I explain all that in a text to him? Or should I even try?
I do know she has played alone before with single guys. Other married guys have messaged him asking to play with her.
Sure swinging is something that's nice for us to do together, but it would be much more convenient to play separate. I could easily meet up with her during my lunch or right after work. No babysitters needed nor other disruptions.