so i was a member before my and my current partner were together but i forgot/lost my login details so i created a new account. i found this site useful for ideas. i did however make the mistake of not telling the missus. she logged onto my emails one day and saw i was a member of a site called sexforums and jumped to conclusions. she decided to spy on me and see what i was up to. she never told me she created an account and i only found out when i had to log onto her emails to do some house keeping for her. so now we are both members and we both know we are members. she admitted she is supprised by the other members here. she thought they would not be as nice as they are. she is becoming more adventourse and having more ideas of her own. she is still a little shy about letting me post photos but one day she might let me. she has also told me about somethings she would like to do and try which i cannot go into because she has not give me permission. we have two young children toether so sometimes finding the time to have fun is not easy but we try as oftern as we can. hoping to be abe to post photos of me and her and both of us together on here soon.