Today I dumped a man that I met on Craigslist. He is the dominate one and I have no problem with that.We haven`t met physically because I didn`t make up my mind about him. He wanted me for only oral sex (me performing oral on him). I have no problem with that. What I do have a problem with is that he would not do anything for me. He said that if I felt I needed to get off I would have to do so in private. After sucking him I would have to go to the bathroom to do so. After I got myself off in the bathroom I would come back, give him a massage and then blow him again. He said that if I would like to have another man fuck me I could but I could not blow him. He said that my lips were only for him. Now how could I have sex with another man and have that man expect me not to give him oral before he does me? This guy I dumped knew that and knew that I could not get the sex that I needed. He was very selfish and arrogant. He would not satisfy my needs and would not let anyone else either. I would have enjoyed taking care of him but his selfishness and ownership of me was in excess. Everything was only for him, the only pleasure I would receive from him was the blow job that I would give him. I did not want a BJ from him but a kiss and hug and a fuck from him was too much to ask. I decided that I would not meet him because if he thought he owned me on line.............how would have he owned me in person?