Some of the questions that I have seen involve those that ask, "What kind of toy should I buy for my woman that has never used them before" or, "What kind of toy is best?" To answer those questions, the first one anyway we should, as guys, consider whether she is nervous about using toys or not. While bringing up the subject in discussion would usually be the ideal option, this is not always possible. Especially if your woman is the type who won't try new things in the bedroom or if you would like to surprise her. However, if you do find yourself in this kind of situation, look at items that are smaller or don't look intimidating. Don't jump the gun and buy a Rabbit or something, instead go for a vibrating egg/bullet, or a smaller 4-6 inch traditional style vibrator. Eggs and bullets while they are small, pack a punch in their small size, while most are inexpensive as well. The downside with these is that they have a tendency to vibrate the users hand which she might not like, and the wire that runs from the controller to the motor itself sometimes break. These are also not to be used anally, neither is it a good idea to insert them in the pussy. Finally, make sure to stick with the toys that are made well. Reading reviews online helps buyers make decisions about each toy's quality and performance but as a general guideline, toys from Doc Johnson, California Exotics, Fun Factory, Lelo, and vibratex to name a few are good quality.