So I'm at a bit of crossroads. Do I choose to explore one path or both. Is it possible to enjoy both? I know that there are people who consider themselves switch but are they truly? Most people who I have meet who claim to be switch generally lean to one side or the other. Is this due to simple preference or have they just not found the right person in which they would feel comfortable reversing their role?
Maybe it is wrong for me to think I can have it both ways and I should state my choice. I do enjoy being a master over a willing yet disobedient girl who gives me every reason to whip their bottom raw. The feeling of being able to demand her to do what you want when you want and how you want it with reprisals for getting it wrong is a very primal and savage pleasure that is hard to resist once you've tried it. I will never forget the feeling the first time I took a firm hold of my ex's hair and playfully teased and slapped her face with my cock before letting her have what at this point she was gagging for.
Another thing about being dominant over a slave is that is you do it right they beg for more. You become their world. You and the pleasure you can give or deny them are all they focus on till in my case she was begging for my cock.
Yet I can't escape from wondering about the other side of the coin. I don't want to give up being a Master but at the same time I crave to experience enslavement even if it is only just once. It is a powerful thought after a good session of slave play to imagine the roles being reversed. I suppose if I ever meet a woman who liked to take turn I'd bet set for life. Lol
But if I do finally set on one the problem which I have just touched upon is where to find such woman. Living in Scotland makes this a difficult problem for me to over come. It's not like I can just go to Stirling and walk into Ann Summers and ask it they know of any local S&M clubs. So where does a guy go to find out about this stuff.
The other down side is once you find a place it tends to charge you an arm and a leg just to get through the front door. Make no mistake my friends; BDSM is a rich man's game. That’s why we have stores like Ann Summers, so we can do this stuff on the cheap. But stores like this are only the domain of couples not someone who is looking for a partner and so I come back to my original problem.
Maybe you can have it both ways. For now until I meet someone else I can only hope.