So hubby and I took a ride tonight and I decided to ask him "so hunny are you scared to make love at the moment because you are afraid that you might have a heart attack?" and he said yes and that the last couple of times that we made love that his chest hurt. So then I said so you are horny sometimes, but just scared something bad will happen if we do and he said yeah. I almost asked him if it would be ok if I have a fuck buddy as long as I use protection, but didn't get quite that brave. So at least we are talking and getting things out in the open.