What gets me are the people who say, "So I'm good enough to fuck, but I'm not good enough to be seen anywhere else with you?" I'll write a full blog post about my exploits with this one particular woman at a later time. The sex was great, and she's a nice person, but I never wanted anything more than friendship and fucking. I thought she did to. My mistake for just assuming that. She mentioned that all we do is have sex at either one of our places and hang out there. Or that we only do things at night, and that she would like to spend some time with me during the day. Even if it's just some mundane shit. Granted, I was a bit of a dick, but I was joking, but I said that would cramp my style. Other women will think that we're together and if I hit on someone while we're out, they'll think I'm a creep. She didn't like that answer. Which brought about the so I'm only good enough to fuck question. Which sad to say, was a yes.
I'm going to continue to erode my nice guy image. Just because someone fucks you doesn't mean that they love you. Just because a woman lets me put my dick in her, doesn't mean that she wants to be with me. It can just mean that she likes how a dick feels, and she likes me enough to not mind feeling mines. You also shouldn't equate your worth by your sexual activities. Sex is a very strong emotional binding agent, but, the time you spend with someone when you are not having sex speaks volumes to where your relationship is headed. It's on thing to fuck all night long. It's enough thing to fuck all night lone, and in the morning, you tag along and go run errands, and allow yourself to be dragged to the mall and before you know it, it's 9:00 PM. Not only is it 9:00 PM, you didn't mind spending all day with this person doing some boring ass shit. This woman equated me having sex with her as me having a connection with her that should be explored deeper. Which is just not the case for me. She should have voiced that concern before she let me cum on her face, in her mouth, and her tits, and her stomach, and her on her ass, and in her ass, and in her pussy. I thought she was down to fuck.
I'm out of a fuck buddy now. Which is probably a good thing because while she likes being a cum receptacle, she wanted to be the only cum receptacle. Which is something that I couldn't offer... to her.