I hate planned sex.
"hey baby I'm horny wanna have sex"
Fuck no lame ass. SHOW me you're horny, come up behind me while I'm doing dishes or making dinner (or lets face it, when I'm playing a game cuz well, i do that more than the former) bite my neck and SHOW me you want me. Unplanned, unwarranted, unexpected sex is such a turn on.
Also, it has been no secret that i can play a little on the kinky side. Bite me, scratch me, pull my hair, choke me, spank me, slap me, its fine.
But i again, dont want to go into bed with a man knowing that is the intention.
Sex is about passion for me, im a leo come on now! I want to be bit and all of the above because in our session that is what felt right in that moment of passion. If we're having sex and a lit candle is nearby, sure why not drip it on each other, if there is a knife there yes you can use the tip and scratch in my skin with it, draw all over and trace my body with it fine. (erotic knifeplay is SO hot) But dont PLAN for those things to happen. that is no fun and has no passion whatsoever.
I also hate stingy people
"can i tie you up"
"sure if i can tie you up"
"no thats not going to happen"
Well then, guess what you're not going to get to do? I am not a sub or dom, i enjoy both roles equally in moderation. I do NOT like extremes of either angle. I can deal with certain levels of pain, on various scale levels, (as mentioned above), but if you push too far and dont stop when i tell you to, i will quickly turn from sexy slightly submissive to psycho bitch kicking you the fuck off me. For example, my nipples are EXTREMELY sensitive, nibbling and pinching is fine, but dont try to rip them off, i will likely hit you. i also dont like sex at certain angles with a man who is slightly larger. My kitty is small, and back walling and tearing hurt. you do either of these, you will regret it.
I also hate when people are overly forward about "what they want to do to me" i have and imagination jackass, let me use it.
Foreplay works about the same too. Passion, turns me on. So massages, almost instantly get me wet, especially if you just barely tease all my sensitive areas, JUST enough to make my body aware of your hands and what they could do if they wanted.... mmmm....
Well i think this ramble is done for now! MWAH!!