"A kiss is something you cannot give without taking and cannot take without giving."
There is, in my opinion, nothing as wonderfully sexy as a good passionate kiss.
It doesn’t come naturally to everyone and some people do have to be taught, how do you teach them without offending them though and what qualifies us as the ones to teach?
I've been thinking a lot recently about kissing and how wonderful it is.
I remember being a teenager and my first kiss was in our school grounds. It was by a tree named devils tree and we were going there specifically for a good old bout of tonsil hockey.
His name was Mark, he was dark haired, bright blue eyes, creamy skin and beautiful full dusky rose coloured lips.
He put his hands on my waist, pulled me towards him and his lips touched mine....there was a jolt through me as his lips pressed against my top lip and he parted them with his tongue, I don’t know if I moved mine or not but I suspect I stood with my lips against his and let his tongue roll around my mouth. It was not very long til we came up for air and my first kiss was over. I remembered my eyes watering and I was immediately turned on!
He was my boyfriend for that summer and kissing was the best thing ever.
I was hooked on a good kiss, even at that age. From then on, I kissed at every available opportunity! My best friend and I used to sit in her bedroom at the childrens home she lived in and we would kiss, it was the lead up to her first (boy) kiss and as I’d done loads, I was teaching her what I knew. Perhaps that was my first foray into lady love! Lol who knows but it was all very innocent at the time.
My first love was a great kisser too, I think I was very spoiled with the boys I kissed early on in life, a bad one would have devastated me!
we kissed an awful lot, you have to when you have nowhere to go for sex until one or the others parents would go out of the house, or in my case, off to bed! it was making love with our mouths lol.
I would be immensely turned on, the feeling of lips pressing against mine, a little swirl of the tongue, taking his lips between mine for a little nibble all combined with the obligatory grope of course. we'd kiss standing up, or with me straddling him, I used to pull my top up and lie against his bare chest, my skin on his as we kissed. Looking at his face, into his dark eyes as we'd pull apart. He has long hair and i'd wind my fingers into it, the kissing was heady and lustfilled, romantic and sometimes dirty.
I read this passage recently and it reminded me of kissing my first love, it could have been written by me at the time, "He gathered her into his strong arms, his deep brown eyes gazing lovingly into hers as he slowly lowered his lips … teasingly, provocatively … his breath baring his very soul as their lips finally joined, fusing their souls together for eternity."
Ok so perhaps it wasnt for eternity but it did feel like it the last time we kissed.
As I moved through the many boys and men i’ve kissed over the years, my technique changed but kissing never failed to turn me on. A night out was never complete until I'd had a good kissing session with someone, either a boyfriend or someone i'd meet in a club. I think I was a kissing whore though, I really wanted to kiss more than anything, well very often it led to more but the kissing was the major attraction.
I went to a wet wet wet concert once and the guy behind me was a scottish groupie, he was gorgeous and I smiled at him, next thing I knew, he was behind me kissing my neck, arms around my waist. I turned to face him and we kissed non stop for the rest of the concert! I don’t remember a single song that was played that night but I remember kissing him as though it was going out of fashion!
We’ve all kissed the man/woman who squashes your nose, cutting off your airway and forcing you to breathe through your mouth, when I got one of them, I would pull back and take one of his lips I’n mine, leaving space at my nostrels so i could breathe easily, and gently suck his lips until he was forced to stop the pressing, I would go back to the kiss again and it generally worked.
Then you would get the mouth soaker/washing machine, the one who would soak your lips and chin in saliva as he roamed his tongue around, not giving you a chance to move at all, filling your mouth with cold saliva, totally vomit inducing. I would push their tongues back out with mine and when the tongue came back, i’d suck the end of it until he cut out the forcing.
There is also the wanting a fuck kisser, they only kiss you when they want to be fucked, they turn me totally off, I can’t cope with a fuck kisser unless I want to fuck him. The only thing to do with one of them is to pull away completely and bury your face in their neck while holding them at arms length until its polite to make your excuses and leave lol, often you meet them pissed in a nightclub at the end of the night!
Kissing is totally under rated and is extremely sexy! When you are in a long term relationship (or perhaps this is just my experience) you tend to forget about long lingering kisses unless you are planning some sex.
Kissing tends to turn into a peck before work, one after work and perhaps one goodnight, wouldn’t it be much nicer if we came home, threw our arms around our partner and locked lips for a full on sensual kiss? I’ve done it often and my husband thinks that I want sex, I don’t necessarily want sex, just a fabulous kiss. I like a kiss that can make my eyes water.
I love to lie in bed, leaning in for a kiss and find a hot steamy passionate one waiting for me. It makes me want to lie there forever, locked in that embrace. I suppose its understandable that we generally only kiss like that in a long term relationship if sex is on the cards, however kissing like that keeps the home fires burning, it keeps your passion for each other alive. Its a shame to ignore a kissing partner, especially when you live with one and can have it on tap daily. I do believe if the kissing is right, then the sex will be right too.
It makes the blood rush to our lips, our hearts race and brings a bloom to our cheeks. How many of us don’t smile after receiving such a kiss?
I love to look at a kissing partner, smile at him, take his hands in mine and caress his palms, stroke his fingers, pull him close to me and place my lips on his.
A little butterfly kiss to start, then run my tongue along his lips, slipping my tongue past his teeth and stroking the tip of his tongue, exploring the underside and top with mine, withdrawing and giving his lips attention again, perhaps a few more little butterfly kisses again before withdrawing and letting his tongue slide into me for some exploration.
There should be no rush or two tongues fighting, take your time and explore.
when our tongues finally dance together as we explore each other, to feel his hands on the back of my neck, working up into my hair and around to my face as he tastes me, for me to feel his face and neck, along his shoulders before surrendering myself to his kiss and caress.
I can get utterly lost in a wonderful kiss. Just writing about it makes me want to kiss someone now, feeling the stress of the day slide away.
I’ve spent so much time kissing a guy that i’ve came home with my face grazed from his stubble, a real life kissing rash
When I first saw Kinky on this site, the thing that attracted me to her more than anything, was her lips on her avatar. she has the fullest lips and they looked ripe for kissing. I opened her thread once i'd seen them to look at the girl with the most kissable lips I'd seen in a long time!
That brings me onto the difference in kissing a female compared to a male. When I've kissed females, its been a totally erotic experience, soft and sensual as a male kiss can be but much more delicate, with different smells, different attitude to the kissing and although wonderful, not as heart melting. There tends to be more play involved when kissing a female, a teasing almost with the kiss. Much as I love it, I do prefer to kiss a man, I love that masculine hold, the arms around me, playing with my hair, stroking my neck, its such an intense experience.
I had some wonderful kissing a little while ago, I didn’t think we’d be having sex again that night or even perhaps any night, so I took advantage of the time we had to kiss.
The kissing was deep, very passionate and immensely hot. We hadnt kissed in a very very long time prior to that night, so it made the kisses a little more erotic and special. Playful and fun too! They stirred a long lost emotion or two in me, but thats because kissing takes you somewhere else, to a higher plane if its good. I was kissing him and could smell him on me, feeling the warmth of his breath on my face as he exhaled, tasting his mouth, feeling as though I were part of him for the length of the kiss. I can remember those kisses in detail and long to feel them again. They make you feel safe and secure, like coming home from a shit day. It a primeval yearning sometimes that comes from within, to be so close to someone that you can't fit a hair between them, lips touching and you can feel their heart beating as you relax into the kisses. Its very difficult to refrain from intercourse though if the kissing is erotic. It makes sex seem like the next thing to do.
I believe that kissing can make a couple fall in love, it creates chemistry if its right, its proven to make the hormone levels in your body surge and in the old fashioned romance stories, men and women fell in love over a kiss. Your heart thuds and your pulse quickens when its right.
There are massive health benefits to kissing too, The Top 10 being:
Those who kiss their partner goodbye each morning live five years longer than those who don’t.
Kissing is great for self-esteem. It makes you feel appreciated and helps your state of mind.
Kissing burns calories, 2-3 calories a minute and can double your metabolic rate. Research claims that three passionate kisses a day (at least lasting 20 seconds each) will cause you to loose an entire extra pound! It's time to start that kissing diet!
Kissing is a known stress-reliever. Passionate kissing relieves tension, reduces negative energy and produces a sense of well being, lowering your cortisol ‘stress’ hormone.
Kissing uses 30 facial muscles and it helps keep the facial muscles tight, preventing baggy cheeks! The tension in the muscles caused by a passionate kiss helps smooth the skin and increases the circulation.
Kissing is good for the heart, as it creates an adrenaline which causes your heart to pump more blood around your body. Frequent kissing has scientifically been proven to stabilize cardiovascular activity, decrease blood pressure and cholesterol.
Those who kiss quite frequently are less likely to suffer from stomach, bladder and blood infections.
During a kiss, natural antibiotics are secreted in the saliva. Also, the saliva contains a type of anesthetic that helps relieve pain.
Kissing reduces anxiety and stops the 'noise' in your mind. It increases the levels of oxytocin, an extremely calming hormone that produces a feeling of peace.
The endorphins produced by kissing are 200 times more powerful than morphine.
I called my best friend today and was speaking with her, I asked her if she remembered her first kiss, she went silent for a minute and when she spoke, she sighed and said, "remember it, I was just tasting it all over again"
we had a long conversation about it and as we went off the phone, she thanked me for reminding her of how nice kissing is and said that her husband would get a hugely passionate one when he got home from work.
Thats my work done for today! I've spread my kissing love and I hope she tells her husband he owes me one!
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