However I was think does sex in the bedroom have to be as dull as all that, I think it comes down to bed style metal frame, wood bed frames and four posted beds have plenty of scope for hot erotic play it does help if you make full use of the surroundings for sexual play. Lets take a bed that has a head and a foot end now it does not matter the style type but some styles of bed frame offer more play options, so let us explore a few things you can do with this type of bed the most common way to play is to tie your partners wrists or ankles to the bed frame and this works for both partners.
When one of you is tided up you can give them teasing kisses on there bodies, run feather or brushes on there body also if you lean them over a bed end you can lick and tease them with toys there is a lot of scope also not all the play has to be on the bed you can use the bed frame for support during standing position or doggie positions. If you sit your partner on the edge of the bed this gives a them a comfy seat as you lick and finger them or for ladies who are sucking their mans cocks a slight tilt back will let you work his g-spot note not all guys will like this due to the location our g-spot is located.
The four posted bed is famous with romantic sexual play with most type of four posted bed having a curtain and a roof like top this you can use any the same tie up play with this bed but if you use the curtain sides you can add a hint of Arabian nights and if you are lucky enough to have two ladies at the same time then you can picture a harem fantasy.
Water beds do have merit but the novelty and things you can do in a water bed become dull like the du-van bed type so experiment with thing to do when having sex in the bedroom when you can.
A little ramble I thought I would blog.