Hello there. This will be my 2nd time ever doing this. So bare with me if Im a little rough around the edges. This is about how I became "Lesbian Trained"
When I was 21 (many moons ago)I moved out for the first time in my life. Happened to be with a good friend who was a lesbian but a smoking hot lesbian. We had known each other for about 2 years and were really good friends. Her name is Darcel, her partner in life was a manly looking beast of a woman. You want to talk about polar opposites. nevertheless she was a great person, we will call her BUTCH!! =-)
Okay so I was a 21 yr old with a decent job, nice car, and living a pretty good existence. I was getting laid whenever I wanted to and the house always had beer. I was in heaven. So I brought one girl home a few times. This one time in particular, I had brought friend home, and we were drinking with both of my roommates. Well, me and my friend (Allison) take our drunk, frisky selves to my room. And we proceed to go at it. I remember being proud of my performance. So, I had to take Allison home and we walked out and roomies were still up partying. I said Ill be right going to take her home. She lived about 3 blocks, lol. So I was back in 5 minutes. I walk in, chest out, grab a beer sit back in living room with roomies. And it was silent. Awkwardly silent. Im thinking to myself, damn scott you are the man, yep yep... honestly I was feeling my oats. I was so cocky that night. Get up and go to walk in my room, then Butch kind of starts to giggle. I stop and say whats so funny? sorry if you heard anything. Now Darcel giggles. I said come on now tell me. Darcel say I would tell you but you might get mad. I said What? nothing can make me mad now. Unless it has to do with my car.... What happened. She said not your car. She then says ok well in this house from the this bathroom right here, we can hear you if you were breathing. Vents \are right there. I said okay? then Im thinking oh no I might have over done it and they heard.. So, I immediately apologize. They were like apologize to Allison. I was like she was thanking me... Butch then speaks up and says listen you are a typical man. Its all about you and only you in the bed. We heard it all, and we just didn't want you to be a typical man. Darcel, speaks up and says that's why she went lesbian, because of typical males. So at first Im livid, just boiling, and Im like you two are the experts an males now huh? And darcel was right away, like im sorry scott, just forget it. But, I was pissed and I continued on , oh yea so what was I so bad at? I hammered the shit out of her, I know I was good tonight. Butch then says did she orgasm? I went to reply and I started nodding my head and yes. They were both just peering at me. I started to think about it and im like well, I'm pretty sure anyways. I think so... They said if you don't know? she didn't! Me being such a mature 21 yr old, I just turned and walked to room and slammed door. Now I know it was my ego, pride talking (false ego, pride ) but I stewed over this. I Didn't speak to them for 3-4 days. I called Allison and flat out asked her, You had an orgasm last time right? Her reply was, I could have because I have never had one before. I just put head down. Started to think how messed up that is for Allison because she had been with 4 other guys and I know they had sex. Because Allison was always down for it. she had told me about her exploits. yet not one Orgasm??
After swallowing my pride and thinking for a long long time. I walked out to living room. And sincerely apologized for acting like a prick. They were both very forgiving and next thing you know we are having beers and everything was fine. Darcel, then says you know we only wanted to help you out. Because there are so many typical males, they feel for girls like Allison and so many others who have know idea what their bodies are capapble of. She called it tragic. I said Im listening . She said men think that faster, harder, longer and that makes them the man. as soon as hes done, party was over. And of course the man is either already asleep , or just high on himself to not pay anyt attention to his partner who didn't finish. Doesn't even act like he cares. That's a typical male. I sid and that's me. They said you tell us. In my mind im thinking that's not fucking me! And I sat there and starting to reinact my sexual excursions, the more I recalled things, the more I wasn't liking it. Finally, I came to the concept they might be right. I said okay so now that we have pinpointed my defintiantcies what do I do about it. I looked at darcel, and a light bulb went off. I was just grinning at Darcel. And Butch says hahaha not gonna happen Skippy... We are just making youaware of things. We can sit down and explain things but you aint getting what you think your getting .Pointing at Darcel, she says this is all mine.. So chuckled and I said okay what ever it takes.
So as days went by they actually started to explain to me what sensuality is, and how big it is , or can be in a females life. I mean they explained how sensual a female body actually is. Showed me trigger spots, and explained how being aware of her needs (even if shes not aware,,ie ALLISON)is a game changer. They explained how arousal begins with the first touch. It can actually show up as tickle spots. I didn't know tickling could be the start of arousal but then went on and explained it to me. gave me a demonstration to try on myself. On the bottom of my feet take it easy out there..lol... and I was getting it . it made sense. these teaching days weren't everyday after work but they were frequesnt. I came home one day and they had a towl laid down on floor and Darcel was in a 2 piece on her belly. They said this is a sensual massageand began to explain the setting, and why the mood music is big, and candles add to the atmosphere, and showed me warm oils, justthe hole 9 yards. So then Butch starts and she says following everything im doing because this is the order you should do this in. And she began she started down by the feet, and slowly worked her way up. Stopped at her knees. I did remember that was one of the spots they said were overly sensitive on a lot of females. Butch did this thing with her fingers and barely touching her behind her knee cap and u could see Darcel s body start moving in a weird way. Then she said, now skippy come here and do this but if you get stupid? you will regret it. So with my mouth wide open I got down next to her and tried behind her knees. no reaction. Butch then begins explain to me that you have to glide your fingers ovr the spot gently, slowly, and be focused on what your trying to do.. I said whats that. She said the way her body was moving when I was doing it. That's what you are looking for. Typical men never even realize it and just miss all the signs. So she explained things and showed me behind the neck, side of torso, the back arms, lower back, belly button (on some), the ears, the neck, and all of these spots that were all triggers for a female. Im telling you it was amazing how she could get darcel to squirm, and moan , and just looked like she was on a cloud an erotic cloud. But honestly it did something to me. (besides make me hard ) I mean I felt like a connection with what they were doing. I was all in after that.
So, I call ALlison up cuz I need to try this. She comes over I laid out the room nicely, got the okay from roomies that it set the mood. Long story short. I had Allison =doing a dance, I mean she was moving and jumping almost with every spot I was touching. She actually was saying whats going onwith my body, I feel weird. and I said stay in the moment and just enjoy so now I know what it feels like to be a man. I was barely touching this girl and she was in outer space. so I was on to her inner thigh and getting close to her (beautiful, wet, warm , muscle lol) and she grabbed my hand and stop already. Im looking up and she stopped my hand but she looked like she was shot or something, because it was too late. She had began to cum. I didn't know it at first. I mean I never even got to her hooha yet. And then a huge moan and she had a look \on her face of fear. and she couldn't stop it and then after 10- 15 seconds, and 3 claw marks on my arm later she gave a huge sigh and then was breathing so hard and she was truly scared. She said what the fuck was that..??? I said I thinmk that might have been your first orgasm. She said the same thing I thought. But you didn't even penetrate me or anything. I said I know, trippy huh?
The next day talking with roomies I went through everything that happened. And when I stopped they said then whatdid you do? Clueless Scott over here says laid there and then took her home. they both wont NOOOOOOOOOOOO.. and explained to me how I should have capitalized on that spot with etc. etcf etc. they explained more stough and well I had lessons like that for about 6 months after... I was absolutely amazed with this new approach to sex. That I was practicing as much and as often as I could. Ill say this, If I have had the time, and the spot with a female, it has NEVER let me down It has made me more confidant, and I started pulling in girls that were out of my league. And showed them the time of their lifes. I had friends share me, mothers , aunts, and sisters in the time to come. We all know it wasn't on my looks...lol.... you have to remember now this was over 20 years ago. and that list has been in the last 20 years .
To this day it was the greatest thing I have EVER learned, that includes college...lol..... I still talk with darcel. I still remember her telling me many times. the reason they did this wasn't just for me. It was for any female that I went out with in the time to come.
So that's what I mean when I say Im lesbian trained. People laugh, but I never go into the story. The most amazing and crazy thing I think is that when I was "the jackhammer" and would pund the crap out of the girl I was with. because I felt like I was the one with the POWER. I am MAN feel my fuck...hahaha. That use to be how I felt. (FALSE CONFIDENCE) In contrast now Im so much gentler, softer, smarter, and do so much less, and get so much more from it. Now I have real POWER lol its called knowledge but it truly is POWER....
Well, if you read it, please comment. Im open to critique. The only thing is I cant change the facts. Because this truly did happen to me.
Thanks for reading. FEEDBACK is more then welcomed