For instance, the mind is best coordinated with our dear hands. have we ever realized where our hands automatically end up when we are watching a porn ( in case there is no guy/girl with you), or during a raunchy scene in a movie and your girl/guy is with you, the hands automatically cups others face and your lips starts the action src='. Indeed most if us have had this encounter (atleast i had it) and yet we forgo this as an outcome to our hormone flow .
But sometime this may be unnecessary and causes embarrassment and in most of the cases it is unavoidable. You cannot hold yourself back from holding your pants when its is rock hard in there, or for that matter stop yourself from kissing your soul mate when the urge is very high. But the problem is not with our mind or with our hand, infact the problem is not there till we are alone, but if we are in company of someone else and such a thing happens then certainly we have an issue. Though the other person is also struggling with the same situation, but may be the reaction time is different. He/She is also experiencing difficulties but the bitter truth is we are introvert and timid to admit it.
So the solution ?
1) Help yourself prior to meeting some onesrc=', so that you are already out of juice
2) Train yourself, keep a vigil over yourself. Make sure you don't run away with the tide of the emotions
3) If you are alone and cannot stop yourself, then make the maximum out of it.