Have you wondered who you actually been communicating with? Again I understand this is a place to get away, to make fantasies, and to be free with your sexuality. What if you made friends with someone and have been friends with them for several years. You may have a great sexual connection with this person and an interest in them. You want to know more but then you find holes in their stories when they say something about their real life. They send pics stating this is from their home, or is their house....etc. You think all this is true for they are sharing a part of their life. But the red flags fly and the doubts are there in the back of your mind.
You try to ignore those flags but you still have those doubts. As the relationship builds more things are shared as far as personal information. I'm not saying sex pics but general life. They show you pets, parts of their home etc.... As the relationship builds the holes are more. Things don't make sense.
Then you decide to do some research. I know "curiosity kills the cat", but it's human nature. As you research you find the holes get bigger. What does one do?
A bit about me, I like being honest. Ask me a question and I'll answer honestly. I find truth is so much easier then a story. I don't have to remember what I have said, or what I have sent. Then of course there is always the drama. I'm not in to the drama as for as lies, gossip, jealousy, and what ever. I'm a very independent women, self sufficient, easy going for the most part, and like to have fun.
With all this said for a situation has come up and I ask my self am I being Catfish? It's nobody from here. It's something that started long ago and just find it puzzling. Is this person the face in the mirror or is it a facade? Don't worry I am a sane human being and I won't be going off the deep end. No drama will happen, it's just all curiosity and a wonder how people that do this tick.
I like to think deep and have deep conversations when I let the cat out of the bag.....the curious one. LOL
If you have input please feel free to chime in. All I ask is be respectful.
Thanks. Just needed to get that out of my head. LOL